Hello,
I'm new at this so bear with me.
I got engaged over a year ago and am planning on getting married summer 2012, not much has been organised I am just starting things now really and am trying to sort out the horrid budget.
Basically my H2B and me have been saving a bit of money, which we will step up shortly but my dilemma appears when it comes to our parents!
My Father (who has money) offered straight away to 'help out', so I am going to sit down with him shortly to talk about figures....however, i'm a modern bride and think to be fair that both sets of parents should help, even if its not equally.
My H2B's family (mother) however has barely mentioned the wedding, let alone any possible contributions, I’ve told my partner he should talk to her, but I was wondering if i could get some advice from others possibly in the same situation?
So what to you think?