Please tell me honestly whether I am being a diva, I can take it!
I will be staying at my parents house the night before our wedding in April. My mum, dad and sister will all be there. I haven't made any plans for the night before yet but assumed I would invite some of my girlfriends over for a bit of food and a glass of wine.
My mum, however, has invited two elderly relatives to stay for the weekend of our wedding, including the night before. They are lovely people but they live in France and so I don't see them that often. They got back in touch with our family about ten years ago and I see them maybe once a year, if that. My mum exchanges emails with them occasionally but I don't. They are coming to the whole wedding, not just the evening, and I am delighted they are able to come. It will make my grandma very happy. But, my mum didn't want my grandma to stay over with us the night before (she has dementia and can be difficult to look after sometimes, my aunt will stay with her instead) and I'm a bit uncertain about why my mum has asked them to come and stay without checking first. I would prefer my grandma was there if anyone was going to be. She will know what is going on and be able to join in. It will also mean I can't have people over and in the morning we will be going out to the hairdressers, having the make up artist over, getting ready etc and I'm not sure what they would do. We won't have much time to spend with them, if at all.
Is this an odd choice my mum has made? I think it is but she doesn't understand my reasoning when I've tried to explain it to her.
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