Advice please ladies.
I met my h2b through his mum. I worked with her and she swapped numbers for us, blah blah. H2B has a sister who is very much a mummies girl. this is fine but she has ALWAYS made a big thing about my relationship with her mum. We get on and try and include her but she never joins us. FSIL is 4years younger then me. When I got with h2b she told me I'm not allowed to have children before her! she has been with her fiance for 3 years, he already has a child and has no intentions of having another (even thoguh they're trying!) anyway. she was there when my h2b proposed. she was soooo miserable. didn't congratulate us or anything, jsut said 'you're not getting married before me'. this was all at Christmas. I don't want her to be my bm because of her attitude towards me and my h2b agrees.
They have been engaged for 2 years and have made absolutely no plans and he isn't interested in a wedding either (funny bloke!) I have paid deposits for our reception venue therefore have set my date (12th september 2015). we're getting married in our towns registry office, a building FSIL really dislikes! we're doing it for practicalities, nothing else. FSIL took FMIL to a different room from me yesterday (I live with the in laws as we are saving for a house) and announced that she's getting married in the 1st May next year AT THE SAME PLACE as us!! this is the girl that has told me I can't get married in May because 'Married in May, Ruin your day' (her words NOT mine!) and doesn't like the registry office!!!!
I know I seam petty but most of the people going to her wedding wil be at mine and I know they'll compare, it's human nature. I really feel like she's doing this to spite me. I don't know what to do.
Also, FMIL told me I HAVE to have FSIL as a bm 'its what happens with the gromes sister!' I have 4 bms, 1 is my sister and the other 3 i have been best friends with for 17 years!!!!
ARGH!!!!! Sorry, I really needed a rant and to know that I'm not being TOTALLY unreasonable, am I?