Am I odd not having a hen...

I would be quite happy to avoid a hen night but only cos I just don't want to go out pubbing and clubbing and I think this is what people would organise for me.

That's pretty crap that your friends haven't got back to you but I'm sure you will have a lovely night with your family.

Not odd at all! A typical "hen night" is my idea of hell! I instead went out for a very nice meal with about 15 friends and to a quiet bar afterwards for a chat and a couple of drinks! I arrived home very sober having spent a nice civilised evening with good friends!

Not odd at all. I didnt want the whole normal hen do so my friend and I went out for a very civilised champagne lunch, checked into my reception hotel and then had a lovely meal. Was nice and not a typical hen do.

Not odd at all, in fact I wish I could join you in the no hen do club but unfortunately mine is next week and OH keeps on telling me it's too late to cancel it [:'(]

Not at all. I opted for a nice holiday with 4 of my closest friends - we hired a villa in the same Spanish village where my brother lives, and it was all very civilised. a LOT of fun but not a 'hen' thing at all. My Dad, his wife and my Mum were all there for the first week!

When I see hordes of half dressed wimmen parading around Edinburgh on a proper tacky 'hen night' it just makes me shudder!

I didnt really have a hen night either, I dont think you are odd!

Not at all! I chose not to have a hen do. Didn't regret that decision in the least.

I didnt have one, and H didnt have a stag do either, we were living too far from all our friends and couldnt afford it all the spare cash was going on the wedding as H had been made redundant just before hand. I really wouldnt worry about it.

I am learning - slowly but surely - that you should do what makes YOU happy! Nothin odd in wanting to have a nice time whatever that involves!

Enjoy whatever you do hun x

I am not in least bit bothered about having a hen do. If i do we will probably go see a show & a meal or something along those lines.

I didn't want one but one of my friends has organised me and tasteful one in four weeks time.

Quite looking forward to it now - I've said that there can be no games involved.

we didn't want a hen, stag or 'hag do' but my lovely work colleagues organised a night out (which I will always count as my hen night) so it was out of my hands in the end.

no-one will think it odd, I don't think. It IS difficult to get people together sometimes and no-one should feel they should HAVE to have one.

Definitely not odd...

What matters is that your happy - im sure you will have a great time with the family.

I'm not having one, typical hen = hell to me...

Might have a spa day with a couple of pals but thats enough..

If I was going to have one, it wouldnt have been a typical hen, it would have only been dinner and a few drinks or a lunch in a hotel, it just would have been nice to have some of my friends there, but I do appreciate with the costs of getting to the wedding, the cost of something like that as they live a fair distance away from me would be prohibitive

Oh well, just means I can have a virtual one on here !!!???️️

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I had a hitched hen night, it was really funny

I don't fancy the idea of a hen night either. If I can actually afford to do anything once the wedding's paid for I'll just go for a nice meal with my mum and a few friends or possibly a spa weekend with 2 or 3 friends. The idea of going out in fancy dress having to do "funny" tasks fills me with dread!