So basically I've just came home from long day at work for my oh to say his mother has been on the phone. Basically his Aunty has rang my FMIL asking if she can bring her grandson to wedding all day! Now I am annoyed for a few reasons one why does his Aunty feel the need to ask my FMIL if this ok but not think to ask me! Also the reason she needs to bring her grandson is because the child's mother who has known about the wedding for over a year has now decided she needs to go to town that morning and can't take her son, why she has chose to go shopping for an outfit that morning I don't know, why she has chose to not take her son I also don't know.
My wedding is in 33 days and they ask this now! I know it's only one child but we have said from day one the only children to the daytime would be are daughter and his nephew. This is due to the fact OH has a large family so we would have had to invite over 30 children. All children have always been invited to the evening but what do I do about this little boy do I have him at the day or not. I just feel if he is there people will be like well why is he invited but not my children? Also I could understand if his mother couldn't have him but the fact it's because she wants to go shopping is just ridiculous!
Sorry for the rant