I don't want an elegant wedding in the sense that everything needs to be co-ordinated and perfect. It's driving me mad that my hubbie to be does. We are currently trying to sort out the invitations and I just don't want anything which doesn't reflect us as a couple. He thinks my ideas are childish and will set the wrong tone for the wedding. My argument is that WE set the tone for the wedding and the tone I want is fun, relaxed and personal!!
I don't know how to get what I want with the invitations and worry we will end up with something which says nothing about us.