It's now 5 weeks tomorrow that I get married and I want to make sure all my girls know exactly what's going to happen on the day. There are 2 reasons for this 1) I'm slightly OCD and would like this level of knowledge if it were me being a BM, 2) this way no one can complain when they find out they have to get up at 7am for make up or other things that "aren't fair". I've started putting it together with the timeline for the day, responsibilities that I'd like them to share between them on the day and reiterating information that they already know but will have been too lazy to do anything about. If it were you would you be grateful of the info or think I was being a bridezilla?
Can anyone think of anything else i should let them know? Also, what 'jobs' have you got your BMs to do for you on the day itself that I might be able to ask of them?
Finally how do i manage a BM who has booked train tickets that don't fit in with our plans? (They're non-refundable before you ask). She's arriving at a station miles away at an awkward time and will be leaving on the sunday before we've all got up so she won't be able to collect things left behind from my parents house.