Our RSVP date on the invites was 22nd April. The only outstanding ones are 2 of my cousins (with their OHs who I have not met). I am not close to them, have not seen them in years and years and they live 100s of miles away so we a assuming they aren't coming. (Have chased them by email and phone - no reply).
However just to make sure we have decided to write to them with something to the effect of "we haven't had your reply, sorry you can't come but if you are attending please call us on so and so number by so and so date".
How can I write this, making my point explicit without sounding like a ***/bridezilla/stuck-up cow??
TIA
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