Hi All,
Our wedding is all booked for this summer, suits have been brought, dress has been brought, flowers, cars and everything else is all in place. Maybe its because i am organised but i am starting to wobble about my decision not to have bridesmaid.
I dont have any particularly close friends so i decided very early on that i would'nt have bridesmaids. The one female that i thought i may have asked never seemed that keen on the idea when we hypotetically discussed me getting married so i didnt want to ask her and then have her say yes because she thought she had to, i am however having her children as my page and flower girl.
Since announcing our engagement i have built up a closer friendship with SIL's both of whom will be at my top table AND are arranging my hen weekend but i feel like asking them at this late stage will feel like an after thought and one i still don't think is really necessary.
The reaction i recieve when i mention im only having FG and page is one of disgust from most people, please tell me i am not the only one.