anybody else stressing about money?

Yep very.

OH is using his savings to pay off some of the balances which have gone up a bit which i feel guilty about and we've cut a couple of things. For example we've decided not to pay for our tog album upfront and work out when we can afford it a bit later in year. We've also cut out the canapes from the afternoon drinks which is saving us a few 100....

Will all be worth it on the day!!!

P.S. 6 weeks on saturday!!!!!!!!!!!!

Yes I am, because my H2B lost his job last week

Ummmmm????!!!! in a word.................................................................. YES!!!!

It looks like we will have a shortfall of around £800 - £1000 not helped by the fact i had to pay almost half on my dress again, when the shop went bust!

you are just gona have to sit down atm and work out how much you got to spend, and who needs paid 1st. You might have to be eating the smartprice/value ranges in the supermarkets for a wee while as well!

Actually its completely random...but my mum every now and again does a "freezer week" and only buys the essential fresh food, and clears the freezer! Can save a fortune!

Autumn rose, arrgh! what we going to do? obv im excited, but still panicking becuase i have so much to do and so much to pay for. im permenantly skint and have been for the last couple of months, my life revolves around weddings becuase i cant go out so all i do is sit on the internet or in my house and do wedding stuff, iv no money to do anything else.

aww dont worry to much snap, you still have a while to go im sure h2b will find summit soon. really sorry to hear that tho.

I also have a shortfull of about 1500 pounds. not to sure what im going to do about it yet. beg & borrow i guess? see what i have to sell perhaps. if i wasnt so hitched addicted then the laptop could be it.iv been really lucky, my shortfall could of been bigger, however iv just been paid compensation from my car accident which has helped dramatically.

its all stupid works fault. the 500 quid a month that iv lost woulda paid the wedding off. still i guess being in a well paid job like that was to good to be true. x