So my future hubby and I are in a bit of a pickle. His best friend is going to be our best man, and his wife will be our photogtrapher. They have a 1 year old daughter, however, with their responsibilities for the day, we assumed they wouldn't be bringing their little one.
We just just discovered that they are planning on bringing her, which is now making us worry as we think that they might have to revolve the day around their little one. We're not sure how they're going to look after her when the wife (the photographer) will be taking photo's all day and the best man will be with my husband and has his usual responsibilities. We're also worried how it's going to work at the top table and wondering if they're even going to be able to stay until late as she has to go to bed early?
We're trying to politely make them realise that it might be best to hire a babysitter or leave her with family, but are we being rude? We're just worried because it's our big day. I said to my friend that if it were me in their shoes, I would make sure I find someone to look after my little one, and my friend agreed, but I just feel terrible.
Do you agree?