Arguments with fiancés - sort of OT

Everyone has their arguments hun. It sounds like you both have a lot going on.

Hope everything gets sorted!

Big hugs xx

Aww Hun, you a definitely not alone, all couples argue over silly things, we wouldn't be human if we didn't! Just give him time to cool off, try and relax, maybe have a nice bath or something. I'm sure he will be home soon and everything will be fine. Hugs xxx

Bless you all couples have silly arguments. Couple that with added stress you're bound to have arguments like that..Once everything has settled you'll be absolutely fine. I hope that you're ok xx

That definitely sounds like a LOT of stress. Everybody argues and in a relationship it's usually over 'nothing'. You should never worry about being "one of those girls". That only applies to crazy jealous stalker girls, not someone who just wants to make sure everything is ok. I hope you've managed to speak to him and sort stuff out x

Iv found that we have had arguements like this too, i think you both have so much to contend with at the moment that sometimes you have to let off steam x

Same here. The best was the one we had over cake (I posted it on here) its just one of those things.

Me and my OH have had arguments where we've both ended up in tears. I think it's worse when one of you walks out, because it makes the other feel as though they're not worth the fight (well, that's how it makes me feel anyway).

He'll get over it, and you'll be back to normal again before you know it.

Just to reassure you like everyone else, we all have our 'moments' of bickering.

Hopefully you've now both slept on it and things seem a bit brighter today ?

Sounds like there is a lot on you plate, I would be surprised if you weren't arguing. If I am left alone during a fight I find I often make things worse, bring up unrelated points, get more upset than the fight was about - especially if I am stressed its like I take the stress out on him.

Put something on the TV or something to distract you - if he is anything like my boy he needs the time to calm down and will come back knowing it was a silly fight and you can talk rationally.

Thanks all - he got back shortly after my original vent post. We had a long chat until about 1am - definitely both stressed out. We've promised each other that we'll talk about things regularly. As there's so much on at the moment it's far too easy to get caught up in the little things!

Thanks again ?