Hi all, newly engaged on Christmas Day
We plan to have our wedding in May/June/July 2013 - not fussed on dates so we're going to pick our venue and see what dates they have. Here's my predicament:
We would like to hold our Ceremony and Wedding Breakfast at our chosen venue, and then hold our Reception/Evening do at our home (we live on a farm and will hold the Reception in the barns) - however a lot of the booking terms i'm reading on wedding packs state that the price is for Exclusive Use or that hire of a particular venue is subject to a minimum amount of guests (fine) AND and evening reception held there also (not fine!). Are these terms set in stone or can you ask a Venue to adapt a little? I mean, we'd have the ceremony and wedding breakfast so they'd still get paid a fair bit and we'd be out of their hair by 5pm so they can all go home early!!
How definite are these booking terms? We're off to a venue tomorrow to look around and see the wedding co-ordinator and i'm a bit afraid to suggest we don't want the evening do at their venue!!