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flowersinherhair
Beginner April 2014

Arrrrgh I have my dress! ***UPDATE TWO WITH FLASH!!***

flowersinherhair, 25 May, 2013 at 18:22 Posted on Planning 0 25



I thought i would never get a dress on my budget here and would get it in a bridal outlet or high street. But I am visiting my best friend (who is also a BM) in reading at the mo and we decided to pop into a bridal shop there to look at some dessy dresses. They didn't have the style I wanted but I noticed a couple of wedding dresses I liked on the sale rack ,it was supposed to be appointment only but they managed to squeeze us in after a wait.

I tried a few on and second one was the one!! I tried it on again to be sure as there was another I liked and my favourite won hands down my BF said apparently everyone else was looking when I had it on (there where 5 changing rooms in one area) and the family sat next to my BF were saying lovely things too! Was looking at all angles for ages and just trying to decide for definite but was too scared because it is such a big thing and this was all so weird and unexpected plus my sis wasn't there but I absolutely loved it and it made my waist look tiny (I am a 14/16). I was starting to get sweaty and lightheaded from the stress of choosing for definite so I got changed out of it and as I put my jeans back on the assistant said 'I'll just put this back on the rail then' and I went 'No!' and I knew then I'd chosen the one. The best bit...it was one pound under budget at £499, was £1600!

My brain is naughty and keeps forcing little thoughts in like it was so quick, should have gone to more places and what if there was something even better but I really can't imagine that! I think it's the shock of it all!! It's pretty different to what I was thinking which was lace, sweetheart neckline - mine has proper straps and is appliqué with shiny diamanté style beads sewn in at the top half then the bottom is a big a line tulle skirt with some little sections of more appliqué it doesn't such that much but the detail is stunning! Also had a big train, my BF felt like Pippa Middleton!

Oops I have just seen how much I have gabbled sorry but am so excited and still so shocked!!

Update with flash, looks even more beautiful in the flesh!! UPDATE 2: have uploaded again without designer name and model so hopefully it won't turn up again!!

I am even more in love with it after seeing it again ❤️ the train looks a little longer and more dramatic IRL that's the only difference.

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Latest activity by 3d jewellery, 30 May, 2013 at 07:54
  • alyj66
    VIP August 2014
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    Don't listen to your head, if you feel beautiful you are beautiful and no other dress will make you feel that way. Flash?

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  • flowersinherhair
    Beginner April 2014
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    Thanks ladies! They wouldn't let us take photos in the shop boo :-( but when I get it back I will :-)

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  • L
    Beginner January 2011
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    What a bargain... advice - don't look at any others. If you felt that way about the dress you tried on then it was the one for you. Smiley smile

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  • Erin8
    Beginner June 2014
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    Your dress sounds lovely! It would be great if you could give us a flash at some point. Everyone has told me when you know about your dress then you know.

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  • sian-tiffany
    Beginner May 2012
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    Oooh sounds good! What's the name of the designer?

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  • Laura DeBourde
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    It sounds like a very lovely dress! You know when you know it's the one. If your immediate reaction was "No!" when the assistant was about to take away the dress, I think you have your answer there. And sounds like you grabbed a huge bargain Smiley laugh

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  • flowersinherhair
    Beginner April 2014
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    Deleted.

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  • flowersinherhair
    Beginner April 2014
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    Tis Benjamin Roberts. I didn't find out until this morning when I had to ring the bridal shop and ask as I wanted to show my sis what it looks like!!

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  • chloe24
    Beginner June 2014
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    Exact same thing happened to me today. Had an appointment made in a shop but was expecting to go to a big shop in Bromley n get my dress here as they r cheap...anyway... My third dress I tried on was the one! I tried on about 6-7 but kept going back to the same one. I gav her a deposit as hated the thought of someone buying it - as it's a on off and was only £420! But I was thinking he same when I left - should I hav gone to more shops etc. but I think u can try on too many n then be confused! Xxx

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  • Red Baroness
    Beginner July 2012
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    Disappointed! ?

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  • flowersinherhair
    Beginner April 2014
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    Here's a link to it though ;-)

    http://theweddingcommunityblog.com/bridal-collections-2011/benjamin-roberts-2011-bridal-collection/#jp-carousel-3420

    http://theweddingcommunityblog.com/bridal-collections-2011/benjamin-roberts-2011-bridal-collection/#jp-carousel-3421

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  • flowersinherhair
    Beginner April 2014
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    Here's a link to it though ;-)

    http://theweddingcommunityblog.com/bridal-collections-2011/benjamin-roberts-2011-bridal-collection/#jp-carousel-3420

    http://theweddingcommunityblog.com/bridal-collections-2011/benjamin-roberts-2011-bridal-collection/#jp-carousel-3421

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  • PinkButterfly
    Beginner June 2014
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    OMG this is the dress I've got my heart set on... Going to try it on, on Sunday!

    Its a beautiful dress!

    edit: I'm a numpty.... Just realised I used the same link I copied and pasted for the dress I liked earlier. Your dress is totally different but still a beautiful dress!!!!

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  • flowersinherhair
    Beginner April 2014
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    Oh yay! There must be a lot of good luck in the air! Were you going to go to the Wedding dress factory outlet in Bromley? I was gonna go there too. Nah I have come to the conclusion now that once you have found 'the one' there is no point looking any further. Congrats!

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  • chloe24
    Beginner June 2014
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    Yes the wedding dress outlet, but Bromley is a bit of a drive for me and this dress I found is bout 30mins away. Smiley smile x

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  • flowersinherhair
    Beginner April 2014
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    Oh yeah I have just seen your location crikey! Good job you found it near home :-) you should flash yours I have flashed mine ?

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  • L
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    Hi,

    It is gorgeous. Well done!

    Lynne

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  • flowersinherhair
    Beginner April 2014
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    Thanks I love it!

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  • flowersinherhair
    Beginner April 2014
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    Ahh bless you thank you. I was wondering why my boobs were so squished in it ?

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  • flowersinherhair
    Beginner April 2014
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    Ahh bless you thank you. I was wondering why my boobs were so squished in it ?

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  • M
    Beginner May 2014
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    It's beautiful. The fact that you got such a bargain makes it even more special.

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  • 3d jewellery
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    It's a beautiful dress can't believe it was on Sale as it looks so this season

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