I haven't been to many weddings, but the last one I have been invited to (my cousin's) included with the invitation a sweet little poem which basically said: "We already have a house full of furniture and pots and pans, we really don't need anything else, don't feel like you need to buy a present because you presence is gift enough for us, but if you do feel the need then money would be best"
I thought it was a nice way of saying that money would be appreciated, without sounding cheeky/expectant. I mentioned this to my future Sister in Law whilst we were having a general wedding chat and she really disliked the idea and seemed to think it was a bit cheeky/unoriginal.
I just wondered what everyone else thinks? Has anyone done anything similar to be sent with their invitations?
Personally, I'd rather give someone money if that's what they would prefer than waste money on a gift that isn't needed or wanted?