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Beginner November 2015

Awkward bumping into family that's not invited

jesikab4u, 27 June, 2015 at 13:17 Posted on Planning 0

I've just had the most awkward moment in town today! I just bumped into my nan and grandAd who are not invited to the wedding.

I just wanted the ground to swallow me up! Long story short, my dad died when I was 14 on Xmas eve whilst we was on holiday in New Zealand. The first thing that came to his family was let's break into to his home take what we can- money motorbike car, even as far as dishwasher and clothes. When I got back from New Zealand after the loss they didn't come and make sure I was ok and just accused me of causing my dad's death. (I was a naughty child)

now every time I see them they make out that they have done nothing wrong and ask why I never go and see them..... Well hello why do you think??

They kept asking me when the wedding is! As they have heard I'm getting married. I didn't tell them the date just said towards the end of the year. I did see them and quickly went into a shop but they saw me! It felt like such a forced conversation that I never wanted to have. I hope they don't get wind of when and where we are getting married!! I would not be happy if they did.

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    Beginner July 2015
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    Hold your head high hun. You don't need to answer to anyone as to why they are or aren't invited, it's your wedding and by the sounds of it you will enjoy it much more without them. I do feel for you as that must have been awkward x

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