Morning!
By the nature of my profession (I'm a PA) I am naturally organised. If something needs doing then I get on and do it and that includes wedding planning, but is it possible to be too organised?
I've been engaged a year and the wedding is just over 13 months away and I have the following sorted: Church, Venue, caterers, tog and vog and Deejay, colours, invites designed but not made and I am dress shopping this coming weekend
People keep telling me I have plenty of time and to slow down because I want to have a plan to make sure I get everything in budget etc.
Last night I met one of my bridesmaids for dinner, she is also doing our cake for us. I was asking her how much she feels I should budget for and stuff like that and she kept saying I had loads of time and to relax. Which is all very well but I want to make sure I am not over budget etc. I'm not asking her to make the cake tomorrow lol.
We also had the same thing when I said I wanted to send out our save the dates over summer, as our wedding will be in the summer holidays next year. She and a couple of others said it was too early and no one cares. She also planned her wedding in 6months because she was pregnant so I think she feels that I should just wait to the last 6 months and do it then.
When I read these forums, I get the impression that I'm not alone in getting things done early and there is still loads to do but I hate the fact I am being made to feel like being organised is wrong... Does anyone else get that or am i being over sensitive.
people ask about the wedding and I tell them and that's when i get the feedback that I am organising too much too early but surely it makes good sense to book things early for the best prices and so not to feel stressed as the big day gets closer..
Thoughts?