Best men!! Rant sorry!

Yup, exactly the same. In defence one of the stag's that I think would have organised everything got ill and had to have an operation, but the other two bets men (H2B has 3) were rubbish and 1 even forgot, until I reminded him!! Anyway, it was last weekend and H2B had a great time, so it was worth it in the end Everyone had so much fun that it is going be annual event haha

Yup,

Our best man, bless him, couldn't organise a p*** up in a brewery. literally(they went to a brewery). I did it all.

To be honest I think it's more the norm that brides and grooms end up organising their own hen adn stag do's. Often Best Men, MoHs live away, are younger family memebrs etc, and the stag/hen party can have such a broad mix of characters that there's only the bride/groom that knows everyone or has the wherewithall to make the arrangements.

Gone are the days when the stag/hen do is just the bride/stag's mates, similarly, gone are the days when the stag/hen do was the night before the wedding in the local town!

This!

I've done a lot of organising of my own things although one bridesmaid has been a great help. OH has arranged his stag do by himself. My brother is best man and had a very small wedding and had no stag night or anything, my BM is his wife and other is a school friend who hasn't been to many weddings and isn't married herself. I think people don't really know they're "supposed" to do the organising and aren't really sure of what their duties are meant to be etc.

I'm completely fine with us doing our own and don't think they're being lazy or not caring etc, just not used to doing these things.

To be fair Mr Erin's friends organised and paid for all of his. All he had to do was show up. He had a great time in Liverpool for the weekend.

In contrast l had to organise all of my hen do myself, all l got was people moaning and not paying their share. Then a few dropped out at the last minute. I am annoyed and resentful.

I had the same, had to constantly text/email OH best man to organise something. In the end my OH and usher organised the stag do

I had the opposite problem in a way. Best Man booked the stag holiday (abroad) without consulting with OH or I - he booked it over a long weekend where we had already arranged a trip away as a family. It was also over a working day for me (we have very young children and each care for them while the other works).

Thankfully it's all over and done with now!

I wouldn't like to be arranging my OHs stag do for him either though! As you said, you have enough on your plate planning a wedding.