So... BIL is 31 and for as long as i've known him has had a GF, numeous GF's, pretty sure hes scared to be on his own.
Last year he met a girl who had recently moved to the area and quickly started a relationship with her. She had a bit of baggage including, a 4 year old son, an abusive ex and was in remission from cancer.
The relationship was rocky to say the least, her cheating, lying about where she was, him never meeting her friends and constant arguements but they continued on.
After about 6 months she announced she was pregnant, he was overjoyed, the rest of us just smiled on the outside. 2 days before her first scan, she miscarried.
The same thing happened 3 months later, pregnant then just before the scan she miscarried.
Just before christmas after one arguement to many, he packed his bags to leave. When she found out, she lost it and smashed a wine glass over her own head causing a nasty cut and having to have stiches. She said to him 'If you leave, I'll tell everyone that you done it'. Luckily she later admitted to her mum that she did it herself and he left.
Straight after he was a nervous wreck, was getting calls from her family with death threats and being followed home from work. He found out during this time though that she had made up the two pregnancies, made up her ever having cancer (still cant get my head around this) and had still been seeing her ex!
Eventually things calmed down. Phew!
Until..... 2 weeks ago we heard a rumour that he was round there again, he didnt mention it to us so we didnt say anything. Then last week he texts his mum a scan picture, nothing else. Now apparently, he had a 'slip up' night after they'd split up and he'd gone back to hers drunk. That night she got pregnant and is now expecting his baby. He says he is really happy and that hes in love.
He wants to come round tomorrow to talk to us about it but I really dont know how im going to react or what im going to say to him.
How can he even think about getting back with her after all of the lies and about such serious things?!
Is the baby actually his? They were together for a year and never got pregnant!
How can I ever talk to her normally, without wanting to punch her for all the horrible things shes done?!
Sorry about the stupidly long post and I really dont expect any answers. Just needed to rant!!!