I know Im probably being unreasonable, but…
We invited a couple to the wedding (all day). The guy is a fairly good friend of my OH's, he's known him for about 2 years and although they don't spend masses of time together, they are what I would call quite close and when we were deciding on day guests, my OH said he felt like he wanted to invite him all day.
Obviously we invited him with his partner (they live together and have a baby). TBH, I wasn't really fussy for inviting her, I don't really know her that well but they are a couple so I wouldn't have just invited the guy.
So OH saw them both today (after we gave them their invite last week) and the girlfriend said, 'thanks for the invitation, but we're not going to come all day. I don't really understand why you invited us all day, surely it should be for family and really close friends? We'll still come along at night, just let us know what time the evening reception starts.'
Now, ok we're not close with her, but OH is friends with the guy, so why should we not have invited him? I remember OH mentioning the wedding to the guy a couple of months ago and said that we were going to invite him all day and he had said, we didn't have to, he understood if we had other people to invite sort of thing and OH had said no that he wanted to invite him all day.
I know I'm over reacting, but it's just annoyed me! I feel like she thinks we're just inviting any old joe to our wedding and she's actually made me feel stupid for inviting them!
*UPDATE*
I opened our mail on Sat and we had an acceptance card for the wedding (whole day) from them!!!! Seriously I was boiling! I asked OH to call him to see what was going on and he actually saw him on the Sunday and the guy said that they were only meaning to have a laugh, they thought that my OH would have said something like, 'what do you mean, I thought we were close friends' sort of thing. OH hadn't really said much at the time, I don't think he really knew what to say. The guy said he didn't expect him to take them seriously and he's been trying to hint to him since that it was a joke. Seriously WTF! There's not much I can do now, I'll just have to deal with it that they're coming, but I'd actually 'upgraded' a couple from the evening guests to give them their place! Should all work out though as I think a couple of our friends aren't going to be able to make it, but still, it's not the point!!