Ok, I'm just curious as to what people consider would be normal or even baseline BM duties (beyond showing up at the wedding and walking down the aisle -- though if you think that's all that's required, do say so)? I have posted on here before on frustrations with one BM. I know others have also had frustrations with BMs not really being involved in the wedding process. I was just wondering what everyone's expectations were for their BMs, including any extra duties of the CBM? Not wanting to start any great drama or debate -- really just curious!