Hi,
I have 3 bridesmaids- one recently text me saying she is not comfortable in the dress we all decided on and that she has too much personal things going on so she may not be a bridesmaid anymore... I worked with her in choosing a different dress which should fit according to measurements, in a matched colour to the other two. I thought this meant that she was going to continue being my bridesmaid but oh no... she will see...
C'mon what does that even mean?
It's not like Im asking her to be there for me every single day between now and the wedding! She arranged my 1st hen do which was at the end of last year- all went well and one of my other bridesmaids have worked on sorting out my next one... therefore I only need her to turn up to that, the rehearsal and the wedding day! I have done all the rest because I didnt want to put pressure on any of them as I know they work long hours with stressful jobs.
If she now decides she doesn't want to do it she still wants to attend as a guest... I feel this would be extremely awkward as I asked her as a friend to be there for me- how do I deal with that?!
I have already written out a provisional table plan, and there will be no room on the table with her parents... and lots of people who attended my 1st hen do already knows that she is my bridesmaid- how do I deal with them asking me what's happened??
I don't need stress like this when I already have other things to worry about! Is a straight answer really that hard??
Please help...
