Just wondering if anyone else has had this, and if I have done the wrong thing.
I asked my three bridesmaids to let me know what style of shoe they wanted the complied list is:
- Little or no heel.
- Big heel
- No straps
- Strappy
- No sling backs
- No sandal type shoes
- Not closed toe shoes
- No pointy toe shoes.
So after this, I asked them on their opinion if they minded getting their own shoes, because I doubt I will find a pair that matches what they all want. Other problem is one is a four hour drive down and left (really stupidly bad at geography) one is hour and 20min up and left, the other hour and 40 mins up and right, so the idea of a day trip with everyone is going to need military planning. I do not care what shoes they get, as long as they are comfortable for them, suit them and can wear them all day, and preferably silver.
BM1, who lives the furthest and crass to say is the poorest one, was really excited about getting her own shoes, because she knows what she likes and our tastes aren't the same at all. Her view was if I'm going to a wedding and only spending max £20 on a pair of shoes, I've done alright.
Bm2, doesn't want to, because she doesn't like shoe shopping, and I've heard nothing of Bm3.
I'm now wondering if it sounds like I'm taking the pee, or if it isn't the correct etiquette. I know that if I bought the same pair, they'd all hate it, so figured this would be the easiest option all round. Or am I sounding like a b*tch? Honest opinions please, and also - any similar stories welcomed.
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