Bridezilla

Really not alone MM.

It's about 2months to go now for me and everything is coming together nicely but little things keep going wrong at the moment and after my disastrous hair trial yesterday I had a proper tantrum and cried my eyes out, threatened to cancel everything and then realised how stupid I was being.

I think we all have those moments of madness. Plus I'm very hormonal at the moment too. Doesn't help x

Hope you're feeling better about things now x

I absolutely cannot wait to get to that stage. I'm definitely gonna be Bridezilla, lol

Yup Im a Bridezilla! I tried to hold it in, but its bursting out all the time, like tourettes!

Have been snapping at everyone and SIL is really winding me up. If it wasnt for the wedding I would have punched her by now.....................

Shes getting the wrath of my tongue after the wedding.

Hell Yeah........

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I think I have tendancies that Ive managed to keep in so far..... Last week I handed out evening invites at work and for about 20 minutes I actually contemplated doing a list of all the people I had invited and emailing a copy to each of them, so that the guests would know who I WASNT inviting and wouldnt say anything to the non invited workers!!

Then I stopped to think about how I could word such an email, and realised that I was very near the Bridezilla mark!!

...Scary.....!!

Oh thank goodness!!

My OH works shift so i feel that i have/am doing everything.

I said this morning that i'm not doing anything else for the wedding, that i was going to make him do it! The look on his face, well... made it worthwhile! He He!

I always pictured that the last few weeks i would be so organised and relaxed. mmm i guess there is still time for that!!!!! Have to admit tho, hitched is keeping my slighty sane at the moment!

Well I havent been too bad...yet! Im sure I will have a proper hissy fit yet!! lol

Definitly guilty of being a zilla ?

I haven't yet, but am in danger of getting that way!

I have bitten my tongue on the following occasions:

1. Was over at H2B's parents at the weekend, and the subject turned to the cost of the wedding (we are trying to make sure it doesn't spiral out of control), and MIL jokingly said, well if you invite everybody really late, hopefully loads of people won't come! Grrrrrrrrr!!!!

2. My sister told me she had to be there when I go dress shopping (like I need supervision or something)!

3. After the deposit had been paid for our venue, MIL later asked me and H2B if it was non-refundable. We told her 'Yes, we don't get it back if we cancel, why?' She says 'What if you break up? It's a lot of money to lose, that's all'. This really upset me, but H2B excused the comment by saying she comes out with all kinds of crap all the time (which is true, but still hurt my feelings).

Don't think I can be composed about these sorts of things for much longer. Going to really lose my rag!!!!!

I have a mumofbridezilla and her choice of outfits honestly the woman is choosing my wedding to have a mid life crisis at! She is walking me down the aisle and wants to wear a cream dress (very close to my dress colour) I looked at her like she had grown two heads? lol I went..... Bridezilla at her lmao! I had a total fit!....

**goes away to hide in the corner** ?

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Oh my lord, I'm thoroughly impressed that you've managed not to smack your MIL one yet!

'What if you break up?' How about 'What if I push you under a bus, love- do you think we can get money back on your invite?!' Miserable old bag!

Fr the last 2 yrs I have vowed I would not become bridezilla, and then this week with about 3 weeks to go, I have turned into a monster bridezilla!!!

I have been really good so far but thats probably because my family live 200 miles away and i had the venue booked 16 months inadvance. I've just done bits throughout time. i think everyone thought i i would be a right biatch but i think it helps that i've been left to it!

We had the venue booked nearly 2 and half yrs in advance. My dad lives in France, my mum in Wales, h2b's parents 30 miles away but don't see them much, It makes no difference. I have been left to it, but it's the things that have not been ready in time, and hen night problems that have turned me!

Had to admit these last 2 days, i have been a bit more relaxed!!

However.......... I'm doing a lot of little things tomorrow. So will probably turn into a bridezilla when things don't turn out right.

@ Puddingbex: I'm getting there! I think the things she says are more of a joke, but it's soooooo NOT funny!!

Feel for you, I really do! My older sister was really excited when I got engaged, and asked me to email her a pic of the ring, as she lives quite far away. Was over at my parents the other day, and younger sister was on the phone to older sister (who's still only seen the pic - really hard to photograph!), and she obviously had asked what it looked like, and my younger sister says "Oh, it's alright. Like any other engagement ring"! That really annoyed me!!!!

Did someone say BRIDEZILLA? Well, er, I'm here....reporting for Duty!!!!

Made me chuckle hun xx

I quite honestly think it's jealousy, in your sister's case and mine. My OH heard her make the ring comment too, and before I'd even said anything to him that's what he said he thought it was all about. Silly hey! At least we have a place to come and rant!!! Thank goodness!! ?

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