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*Funky*
Beginner January 2001

By popular OT demand funkyjameseo is getting his flash on!

*Funky*, 13 September, 2012 at 22:04 Posted on Planning 0 74

Hello one and all!

<<<<<<<<<I'm funkyjameseo, like my pondering portrait? ha (not quite the Emma Thomson lookalike Footlong)

Anyway it feels like I been a member of hitched for like ever but have never really said much about myself or my wedding. (simply did not feel anyone would be interested in little old me however i'm told that is not the case so here we go).

My OH and I have been together for nearly 5 years and are having a civil partnership next September I'm originally from Kent and OH is originally from Latvia and we now live together in London.

We would loved to be able to jet of and get hitched on a beach somewhere however the majority of the world is not really ready for gay weddings so we thought we would play it safe and get hitched in the city I love to hate London.

We either wanted to keep it small and splash out on a bit of luxury or just keep it very basic and informal BBQ type affair as personally I think these make the best weddings and so the venue search commenced we viewed about 10 venues in total and after weighing up all the pros and cons the crux of it boiled down to the weather, we did not want to risk planning an outdoor casual type bbq affair to have torrential rain on the day.

So the venue we booked was actually the first one we viewed.

The Dorchester Hotel Park Lane London





The reason we went with this venue as it had special meaning to us both, When I left school my dream was to to be a head chef at one of London's top hotels i.e The Savoy, The Ritz or The Dorchester and although I spent 8 years as a chef (and events in general) I decided it actually wasn't what I wanted to be doing the rest of my life. Soo if i'm not to work at the Dorchester then I don't mind settling on getting married there instead.....oh and my inner child wants to be able to buy Park Lane while playing Monopoly build a hotel on it and be able to say 'that is the hotel I got married in!! ha

Now about my OH- Although since moving to the Uk he has worked in event management (we both have mucho wedding experience) back in Latvia he worked in theatre, choreographer teaching models to walk gracefully down a runway in heels ha (in addition to theatre shows), however his first love is ballet he won a top scholarship and he and toured the world in various shows anyway this happened many years before we even met (but i have seen the pics of him in ballet tights as evidence!!) anyway back to the matter in hand, 'the room' we are having our ceremony in was designed but the original set designer of the sleeping beauty ballet (Oliver Messel) so the venue suits both our first loves just perfect.....next who is wearing the dress,,,,?

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Latest activity by Red Baroness, 20 September, 2012 at 13:28
  • jojo2
    Beginner June 2012
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    Wow this is one wedding report i am dying to see, it looks gorgeous!

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  • ~Peanut~
    Beginner December 2012
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    It certainly is a beautiful venue, and I think we can all agree now that you don't look like Emma Thompson!

    Looking forward to a suit flash!

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  • unexpectedpenny
    Beginner January 2013
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    Can't wait to see your report!! Amazing venue.

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  • Tiny-Tiggs
    Beginner April 2012
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    Your venue looks very nice James. Nice to see a friendly intro from you.

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  • MrsA2012
    Beginner July 2012
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    "oh and my inner child wants to be able to buy Park Lane while playing Monopoly build a hotel on it and be able to say 'that is the hotel I got married in!! ha"

    Seems like a perfectly good reason to me!!

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  • clarehj
    Beginner April 2012
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    Oooh James I never realised you were a boy!

    I love the Dorchester - amazing venue. I always thought I wanted outdoorsy place as well but decided UK weather too unrealiable. I too married a foreign boy in the city!

    Marrying a former ballet dancer sounds terribly romantic! Do you live in London now?

    When is the wedding and how far along are you in planning?

    x

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  • Cilla
    Beginner April 2012
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    Very nice!!! Can't wait to see the dress ?

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  • *Funky*
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  • tortoise
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    Wow, gorgeous venue, I can see why you chose it. You look nothing like I imagined and your pose is fabulous! Ha ha. Hurry up with more flashes and more story x

    ETA you were obviously busy typing when I was writing that. I love 'in-sync' things like the jacket story. Me and OH did the same kind of thing for our first dance song Smiley smile loving reading this.

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  • *Funky*
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    ❤️ this

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  • Kjay
    Beginner August 2013
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    This is fab James- you dark horse Smiley winking

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  • Zoomo13
    Beginner August 2015
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    I love the dorchester x x

    youve got me hooked hurry up and write some more

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  • *Eclair*
    Beginner August 2012
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    It all looks amazing! I ❤️ the D&G photo shoot jacket.

    ? at the Justin Bieber jacket though, definitely don't tell your OH!

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  • *Funky*
    Beginner January 2001
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    Thanks, yes we live in Greenwich...,.will add more about the rest of the planning, c'est soir.

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  • Mrs_imp
    Beginner June 2012
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    Love that you have got so many jackets, great excuses for them!

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  • tortoise
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    I LOVE your pre ceremony shoes! Get yourself in the clothes and flash some pics then, please Smiley smile

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  • Cilla
    Beginner April 2012
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    ❤️ the suits and sparkly shoes

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  • Fergo
    Beginner December 2012
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    Nice to hear a bit about you funkyjameseo ?

    The suits look great, I love the grey jacket and shoes.

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  • Kriek
    Beginner December 2012
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    Excellent flashing Funkyjameseo! Shame about the Beiber jacket, I'd bury that info so no one ever makes the link again!

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  • Little Pixie
    Beginner September 2011
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    OMG! I LOVE LOVE LOVE your shoes!!!!!! This is going to be one hell of a wedding. Defo a contender for wedding of the year on the hitched awards! Make sure you enter after the wedding!!!!

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  • ~Peanut~
    Beginner December 2012
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    Love the suit and shoes! Obvious question that doesn't seem to have been asked yet (unless I missed it...) when are you getting married?

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  • Missus S
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    About time Mr! I think you should allocate some slots for Hitchers to attend, naturally.

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  • Trouble_gb
    Beginner September 2013
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    James - what an excellent choice of venue.

    I go past the Dorchester on my way to work every morning and I love it and the expensive cars parked out the front.

    I was lucky enough to go to a Christmas Ball in the Grand Ballroom so I'm quite envious.

    Have you chosen your suit?

    x

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  • FaeBelle13
    Beginner April 2013
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    Now this is a report I can't wait for!

    Is he miss jay from ANTM??

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  • ~Peanut~
    Beginner December 2012
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    ? I would love it if he was! Can I borrow Mr Funkyjameseo to teach me to walk gracefully in my wedding heels?

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  • Flowmojo
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    I think you have become my new favourite hitcher, mainly just from your ssarkly cream shoes!! A-MAZ-ING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Id like you to change your name to Fronc tho ? (a Father of the Bride ref if no one gets it!)

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  • Barefoot
    Beginner August 2012
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    Oooh get you! Peaches Geldof - 3 dresses. You - 3 completely separate outfits! Can't wait to hear more about the planning and the after-wedding report.

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  • jojo2
    Beginner June 2012
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    I actually got excited looking at mens clothes for the 1st time, Love the sparkly shoes you will blow everyone away, can't wait to see the photo's!

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    Hahaha Flow!!!

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  • sal.san
    Beginner December 2011
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    Looking fab FJ!! Cant wait to read more so hurry up!

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  • Selenalee69
    Beginner April 2013
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    I love the venue, I love the clothes- I can't believe that he bought the very same jacket you wanted- that's a definite sign of goodness ! Can't wait to read more x

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