I am a bit hurt.....annoyed and I need to vent
The groomsmen met up this week to do some suit stuff, R has 2 best men and one of Best men's wife tagged along, (WHY???) afterwards, she told OH to his face in front of everyone that our wedding was a massive inconvenience to her and she was going out of her way to attend and spend money on fuel and hotels etc........................................so we should give up OUR house the night before, for them to stay in............. as it's half way between their house and the venue???
er, how about NO love!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! My house is already going to be full of family from Ireland, Scotland and Spain etc (people who have travelled upwards of 10 hours to be with us, the least we can do is put them up the night before)
WTF? How dare she, they only live 2 hours away, it's not like they have to come from Scotland like most of my family, nor has she been involved in any of the wedding planning I have tried to keep out of her hair so far so as not to cause any stress etc - and more to the point, we all know how expensive being a guest at a wedding can be, but by no means do you march up to the groom and tell him that his wedding is a "massive inconvenience altogether" If it such an inconvenience why did she come to the suit fitting?
Her husband (the best man) said nothing at all, just sat there quietly while she said this.........but we have NOT inconvenienced them, not once, other than asking him to come to a suit fitting
I just don't get it?
