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sammi23, 15 April, 2012 at 17:03

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all groomsmen were here today on there annual gathering before going to old trafford (oh and his friends go once a year as a big group) there were chatting in general then BM said "been thinking after all speeches at ur do can i have 2 mins on mic?" to which i replied you will be doing a speech...

All groomsmen were here today on there annual gathering before going to old trafford (oh and his friends go once a year as a big group) there were chatting in general then

BM said "been thinking after all speeches at ur do can i have 2 mins on mic?"

to which i replied you will be doing a speech anyway

him "no i mean after that so i can propose to L?"

i was shocked and said "id prefere if you didnt its kinda our day" he went really quiet then announched that we wil of had our moment and why cant everyone them celebrate them too.....

i had a paddy and said that this wasnt happening it was our day not his and to find his own moment with L to do it...any time any where just not our wedding reception!!! i probably came across rather abrupt

i now feel really bad and oh has texted saying bm has dun nothing but go on about it, i have simply said to oh i dont want it happening in front of all our guests he can do it elsewhere plus i want it to be our day not a celebration of there engagement too!! and its his BM so he has to make it clear we dont want it too happen!!

Am i out of order!?

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olderbride · 16 April, 2012 at 10:32
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I would be absoolutely furious if this happened at my wedding. It's not just your "moment" it is your day that you haev spent ages and ages planning. He asked you, you said no - he should respect your wishes.
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olderbride · 16 April, 2012 at 10:33
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I would be absoolutely furious if this happened at my wedding. It's not just your "moment" it is your day that you haev spent ages and ages planning. He asked you, you said no - he should respect your wishes.
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xMissyLoux · 16 April, 2012 at 19:50
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So glad it went well for you Sammi and it's all sorted! You can relax and get back to enjoying planning and getting excited about YOUR special day now ?
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cford09 · 16 April, 2012 at 20:04
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Now all you need to do is a few weeks before their wedding, tell him you're planning to announce your pregnancy during their speeches ;-)
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Hypnopoison · 16 April, 2012 at 20:08
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Nope! You are definitely not out of order!!! It's your day, you've spent all that money. Anyway how un-romantic proposing at someone else's wedding! I would've hated it if my OH had done that. Tell him to go do one and be more considerate think of something private and meaningful for him and his partner, not stealing someone else lime light. I wouldn't let it happen if asked at mine either! Stupid man!
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Hypnopoison · 16 April, 2012 at 20:09
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Nope! You are definitely not out of order!!! It's your day, you've spent all that money. Anyway how un-romantic proposing at someone else's wedding! I would've hated it if my OH had done that. Tell him to go do one and be more considerate think of something private and meaningful for him and his partner, not stealing someone else lime light. I wouldn't let it happen if asked at mine either! Stupid man! Oh I just told my other half and he wouldnt be happy about it either. It's your wedding day, not their engagement party!
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Hypnopoison · 16 April, 2012 at 20:12
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Oh I just told my other half and he wouldnt be happy about it either. It's your wedding day, not their free engagement party!
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Blonde Viki · 16 April, 2012 at 20:13
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