Check out the post in WP...

True. Maybe it just winds me up more than it used to.

Before I got married I asked a question about a BM issue I was having and got some blunt replies basically telling me to ditch the BM. I (stupidly) didn't listen and ended up ditching her just over a month before the wedding which caused more stress than it would have done if I'd listened to you guys in the first place. Thats why we need honesty on here!

Pugsley - your post cracked me up.

I'm now unsure whether to laugh or cry at her response. It's winding me up hugely but at the same time is so ridiculous i'm not sure it deserves a response.

I'm trying desperately to ignore her.

Pugsley, that's exactly it isn't it. Sometimes you need objective advice from people who aren't as close to the situation, and I think OMs in particular can offer that having been there and done that. But you have to accept the answer when it comes, even if it wasn't what you had hoped for!

Where's Mini when we need her? I'm sure she would deal with her with much more style than I ever could. ?

Late to this ... what thread are you talking about (the one with the back up, not the OP)

What's really winding me up is not the OP but those who are getting all wound up because we answered her question honestly. As grown ups we are supposed to be able to have a difference of opinion without throwing a wobbly and taking our toys home.

The 'I don't like what you said so I'm not playing anymore' approach to life should really have been left in the school playground.

Seriously if this is how they think you behave when you have a disagreement with someone then they need to consider whether they are ready for the grown up challenges of marriage.

I'm being dignified and ignoring it even though I really want to go back on and tell little miss self righteous to get over herself!!

Oh go on BekkiJane - I always enjoy your posts so much (even when I disagree with them). shsh don't tell anyone on WP that you're allowed to disagree.

Hang on....there's a follow up post?? i'm off to read that....

Go on Bekki! I think she need to hear it. Now she's getting annoyed for people quoting her... What's all that about.

Celticurl you're totally right. she sounds quite child like in her responses.

I am half tempted to ask for an apology as she called us nasty. Not sure i should be antagonising her though ?

No no, i'll be stripped of my titles!! Besides, AliG has done a great job ?

I think i'd vote for you to have all the titles you want! ?

Agreed Ali did a great job.

Had a little tear in my eye reading your soppy post. ?

I know lots of people hate Corinthians, but i love it. Then again i'm naturally 'nasty' so I need it more than others

Grrr, anyone would think we were school bullies beating up poor little Tink !! I have growled ?

Oh dear....it just gets worse....it makes fun reading though - Tiink would be better simply shutting up - she did say it was OK ro be selfish on your wedding day after all.....and called people nasty, so is no one else allowed to disagree?

This thread being quoted in the convo is a bit pointless. *Waves* It's a public forum, nothing's been said that any of us wouldn't want shared anyway so I don't understand the point of it.

I can't be bothered to reply on the other thread, some people will never see or understand what they're 'fighting' for so it's a waste of time.

Give the OP some credit, she might not have liked the answers to her question but at least she's not trying to argue with people over their opinions.

What Pugsley said!

I really am a fountain of wisdom today! :-D

Oh wise one we all bow down to you!

Pugsley, you truly are wise. If people can't take a little difference in opinions then forums are not the right places for them.

Pretty sure i'll get in trouble for that pic but gna risk it anyway

Bullying? We deliberately stepped away from the other thread to try and make sure the comments stayed about the original post and weren't all focused on you. As you made very clear, people are entitled to opinions, they just won't always match, that's why they're opinions.

Pugsley, totally worth getting in trouble for!

Uh, this post was created to talk about a thread you have had nothing to do with, which if you read it is a load of rambling nonsense and probably spam. Yes the conversation has turned to the other thread, but...that's how conversation works.

Everyone just calm down and take a breath! I just scanned through the thread and what a waste of time. I really, really don't understand the point in arguing over pointless points with strangers on the internet.

ID posted this once and it stuck with me ...

I kind of feel like I'm a true OM now a B2B has included me in a group being called bullies and b*tches. It's like a ritual.

Pugsley ?

One of us, one of us, one of us!

Ha! ID /SW, I love it!

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sorry mum ?

Aaah maaannnn... I want sweets!

Damn work! I missed the fight on WP! By the time I got there all tiinks comments had been deleted.

No you sweets you lot, you nasty bunch! ?

You bitter old bullies.

I don't blame her I wouldn't want pesky kids ruining my wedding either, ?