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Chucklevision
Beginner July 2015

Chucklevisions Official Wedding Report *Warning* There may be some flashing

Chucklevision, 13 July, 2015 at 18:26 Posted on Planning 0 37

Well I am now back on UK soil and thought it was time to do my post wedding report. I have tried to keep my report brief and easy to read with very heavy flashing however I seem to have failed miserably and it is much longer than I had intended

Here goes........

A little background

Mr Chuckle and I met in March 2010, when I was 24. I had just returned from a trip to Seattle visiting a friend. Prior to this holiday I had been planning to go travelling for a few months but whilst I was away my employer had refused my request. 10 days later I met Mr Chuckle on a Friday night out. He was on a work night out and I happened to old school friends with one of his colleagues, Port. My friend Li was fed up of me being single (I had been single and celibate for about 5 years at this point) and she set about playing Mr Chuckle and another work friend of his B off against each other to vie for my affections. This was for no reason other than the fact that both of them happened to be single.

Anyway, Mr Chuckle and I hit it off straightaway ( although I’m sure that alcohol played a huge part of that) after he gave me a rendition of the solo he had as a 10 year old in the school Nativity play – he played the Donkey! After sharing a few kisses and numbers, he called me the next day. Two days after we met we had our first date and we’ve been together ever since.

In this time, Mr Chuckle has seen me through some pretty tough times. We moved into together after 2 ½ years and then bought our first home together in July 2013.




The proposal

Mr Chuckle proposed on Christmas Eve 2013, but he had purchased the ring in October. We had been speaking about marriage for some time but as we had just bought our house, I didn’t really expect him to propose when he did.

If you ask Mr Chuckle, he will swear blind that I was on to him as apparently I had made a few suspect comments. He had wrapped my ring placed it under our Christmas Tree along with some other presents he had bought me. We have a long running game in our house, that we wrap presents early and let the receiver take a guess a what they are. I had picked up the ring shook it and joked that it was an engagement ring. Shortly before he proposed he also pretended to go out for work drinks but instead was going to visit my parents to tell them that he was planning on proposing. Just as he was preparing to leave, I had apparently made some joke that he had better ask permission from my dad before proposing.

There was also the incident where I had accidently opened one of Mr Chuckle’s bank statements thinking it was our joint account. I realised my error pretty quickly and didn’t look at any of the transactions. When I told my OH about this he was funny with me for weeks about it and I had no idea why but he would make the occasion snarky comment that I am nosey. Had I bothered to look at the bank statement I would have seen the engagement ring purchase on it.

Anyway I digress; we were due to go out for a posh dinner at one of our favourite restaurants on Christmas Eve and Mr Chuckle was planning on proposing before we left the house. One moment we are chatting on the sofa half getting ready and half chatting and next thing I know Mr Chuckle had done a spin and was on one knee. It told me a while to notice the ring and I then I got all giddy and giggly so much that I just left him there waiting for an answer – As if he didn’t know.

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Latest activity by NYE_Bride, 23 July, 2015 at 16:24
  • Chucklevision
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    The Planning

    We spent about six months looking for venues – some you may remember my early posts. We had originally wanted to get married abroad in the Caribbean because we wanted a small wedding however, our families wouldn’t have been able to make it out there and after much to-ing and fro-ing we decided we couldn’t elope. After looking at loads of local venues we went back to the idea of marrying abroad. This time though we picked Italy to be a bit closer to home to make it easier for the guests we would invite to make it.

    After a bit of research we selected the Town Hall in Toarmina, Sicily through Thomson for the 3 July 2015, 5 days after we flew in. WE booked to stay in Sicily for 2 weeks so we had some time after the weddings for a honeymoon. We had booked it so we flew out on my 30th Birthday and and was still there for Mr Chuckle's birthday with our wedding right in the middle.

    As we had decided to get married abroad, there was very little planning we could actually do other than telling the Wedding planner what services we wanted, which was very much a tick box exercise. The ceremony, reception venue, photographer, music were all arranged As we had decided to do it abroad as well, there was no sorting out seating plans, table centres or the other little extras that many other brides sort out. l we really could arrange from here was our wedding clothes and all the paperwork.

    I spent much of the lead up to the wedding reading threads on Hitched panicking that I should be planning so much more and had we made a massive mistake. We were missing out some of the major component expected from weddings like a first dance (what? No First dance? Most of our guests cried) and formal reception as we were having a late ceremony we had settled on just having a meal afterwards. I had to keep reminding myself that we had wanted a small quiet stripped back wedding.

    This is where I admit to having picked badly in terms of my choice of BM I wasn’t really going to have a BM as my first choice was my sister and I got vibes from her that with two small kids she would prefer not to be asked – so I didn’t. My sister convinced me to ask one of my oldest friends, Li.

    She had been out of the country for 2 ½ years in Australia and I asked her to be my BM when I first saw her after she had returned last August. I wish I had waited a bit as it has become apparent to me that in the time she was away we have grown apart and our friendship just isn’t as strong as it was for no reason other than our lives have gone in completely different directions and we no longer have a shared outlook or anything in common anymore.

    At first she seemed quite touched and was very tearful when I asked her and she seemed quite enthusiastic about arranging my hen do. I then found it quite difficult to get her to come dress shopping with my as she wanted to leave getting her dress until the last minute and she lost interest in planning my hen do once she discovered that I didn’t want a boozy night full of strippers. So she did somewhat of a half-assed job and left it up to me to arrange what she couldn’t bothered to do.

    I didn’t get the opportunity to go dress shopping with her so I ended up just buying some dresses online and giving her the option of what she wanted to wear. In fairness to her, she was quite happy to wear anything I asked her to.

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  • Chucklevision
    Beginner July 2015
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    My Hen Do.

    So my hen do was quite disorganised and was arranged at the last minute as my BM had offered to organise it so I left her to it after giving her a list of friends i wanted to attend. My BM had been a bit fussy about dates as she didn't want anything clashing with her 30th Birthday and other plans she had. In hindsight i probably should have been a bit more demanding and chased her up more. She made the booking but i ended up collecting all the money at very short notice ( luckily i have amazing friends and co-ordinating everything else.

    My BM had however prepared lovely party packs for everyone full of sweets and games etc so she isn't all bad just a bit scatty and not very good at organising things.

    For my hen do, we went hunting and punting in Cambridge then had an afternoon tea and drinks afterwards in Hitchin. I had an awesome time but by god did we do a lot of walking.




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  • Sambarine
    Beginner May 2015
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    Ooh! Can't wait to see the rest CV!

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    More more! type faster! i dont care if your fingers aaaaaaaaache!

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  • Chucklevision
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    Ha ha sorry ladies - my internet went down!

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    The Final few days before the Wedding.

    My family flew out the Wednesday before the wedding and I was insanely jealous that people were already heading out.

    It was also my last day at work was the Wednesday before the wedding and luckily I had managed to fit in working from home. I had heaps to get through but I didn’t get everything done as I had a knock on the door from some dog walkers trying to find the owner of a gorgeous staff they had found in the street. Long story short, I ended up dog-sitting for a few hours all the while panicking that the owners wouldn’t be found and Mr Chuckle wouldn’t be happy to come home to find we had a dog 4 days before we were to go on holiday. Luckily, the owners were found and my worrying was for nothing.

    The remaining days were filled with packing, washing and haircuts, waxing, nails etc. Purchasing last minute wedding and holiday items.

    As we had a 6am flight on my birthday, we decided to celebrate my 30th a day earlier We went to Bridge Street Bistro, which is the same restaurant we went to the night we got engaged, famed for it’s beef wellington. Then it was an early night as we had to get up at 2am to drive to Gatwick.

    I had a minor panic whilst going through customs. I had packed my dress to take on the plane as hand luggage. After going through the X-ray machine by suitcase was passed to an official for checking, luckily it was only a swab test – PHEW! I was concerned that they might want to unpack it and it had taken ages to wrap it nicely in tissue paper.

    After a 2 ½ hour flight, we had arrived in Sicily and discovered what a good choice we had made picking Taormina.

    On the Monday, we caught up with our families and the guests that had flown in on the previous day. My sister threw a surprise party for me at the villa where all my family staying. Mr Chuckle’s parent’s also came so that we could introduce them to my folks as they hadn’t met before.

    The following day we met with our wedding planner, Nicoletta to finalise the arrangements for the day. We in effect had to give notice again to the Sicilian Authorities so we did this and we were provided with a copy of our vows.

    Nicoletta took us to the Town Hall and talked us through what would happen on the day. We then found out that in Sicily it was customary for the Best Man and Bridesmaids to act as witnesses and that we had caused a bit of confusion. Apparently it has never come up before as we had the largest wedding number of guests they had previously dealt with. She also took us to the restaurant we had chosen to hold our wedding breakfast and finalised our meal choices.

    Next up was sorting out our transport for the guests to get to and from the restaurant and picking out the cake, flowers & selecting the key pieces of music. And then it was done!

    Nicoletta was amazing and sorted out things for us so quickly. We were telling her about UK weddings and she was amazed that suppliers had to be booked and arranged for months in advance. We were panicking about getting everything sorted in time and she was very much like the wedding isn’t until Friday that’s plenty of time!!

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    I’ve mentioned a few time that by BM was a bit useless and in fact she ended up being a glorified guest. She flew out to Sicily on Sunday but had decided to travel around a bit before arriving in Taormina and she wasn’t contactable during that time because she only had access to wi-fi and I was unable to keep her up to date with plans. Knowing this I emailed her a few days before the wedding along with the other guests to let them know a brief outline of the day. Anyway she contacts 2 days before the wedding to let me know that she can’t remember what time the ceremony starts or where she supposed to be. Needless to say I was not impressed, really quite angry and didn’t need the stress. I’m ashamed to say that I did send her a few stroppy messages as I was trying to make her aware of hair appointments, after I’d had my hair trial and she was trying to dictate where and when she should meet me. Despite my stroppiness to her credit she took in her stride didn’t take the bait (or more likely she was oblivious that I was annoyed) and she just said that she would contact me when she arrived.

    I actually randomly bumped in the street the day before the wedding and I filled her in on the plans. I had decided by this point to get ready at my parent’s hotel rather than mine as it was closer to the venue and my hairdresser. So I asked my BM to meet me at the hairdressers with my mum at 1.45 on the Friday and get ready at her hotel so I could meet her outside the venue.

    The night before the wedding we met up with friends to dinner and cocktails.


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    Before the Wedding.

    Mr Chuckle and I had decided to spend the night before we got married together, partly because our ceremony wasn’t until 4.30pm and it seemed easier. Our wedding planner was aghast at our plans as she was very romantic and traditional. She was adamant that Mr Chuckle shouldn’t see my dress before the day. We didn’t have the heart to tell her that I had to steam my dress in the bathroom to get rid of the creases so he had already seen it.

    She made us promise that we wouldn’t get ready together, so we ate breakfast together and then he disappeared off to his parent’s apartment to get ready. Whilst I stayed at my hotel and started doing my make-up.

    My folks were staying in a villa 40 mins away so they had booked to stay in Taormina for the night of the wedding. I had asked for them to pick me up on the way so I didn’t have to run around with all my wedding things in the heat.

    Cue a call from my Dad at Noon, saying that he was outside my hotel. Unfortunately my dad had gone to the wrong hotel. There was a bit of panic from my mum who started getting stressed so instead I hoped into a taxi.

    My mum’s way of dealing with stress is to shout and as I arrived at their hotel, I walked into the tail end of an argument between her and my sister. Families, ay, who’d have them! Still they made up pretty quickly.

    I continued getting ready and then it was time to for me to head to the hairdressers with my mum.

    4pm quickly rolled around and before I knew it I was dressed and in the hotel foyer waiting for my taxi with my parents.

    By 4.45 (arriving fashionably late) I was outside the venue…….

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  • MrsB88
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    Moreeeeee! ! Loving it =)

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    This is where i start getting a bit flash heavy......




    Unfortunately, the photographer for some reason didn't get any photo's of me walking down the aisle so there may seem to be a big of an odd gap. I', waiting to hear from the wedding planner to see if the photographer had a scatty moment and forgot to include them on the disc.

    Everyone said that I looked really nervous walking down the aisle with my dad. I like to think it was more confusion because I was waiting for the Violinist and guitarist to start playing . I can't help Falling in love with you by Elvis which is the processional song we had requested. I have no idea what music was playing as I walked down the Aisle but it wasn't Elvis.

    Once at the end of the Aisle, i could hear Me Chuckles' neice shouting 'Shop, shop' in the background before her dad took her out and mu nephew Elliott sitting with his day saying, " daddy, i'm sad! - Thanks Elliott!! lol.



    Both Mr chuckles Dad and my sister did readings.....



    It's traditional in italian weddings for your rings to be passed to you by a child.....this is my nephew Elliott.







    And then we were married.......

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  • AuntieBJ
    Beginner September 2014
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    Beautiful report!! Love the blue nails and your little ring fella!! Obvious that you had a very happy day and your pictures are gorgeous!

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    Lots of things about Sicilian Weddings are backward to UK ones for for example we were pronounced husband and wife quite early on and then they go through all the legal bits. another things is that all the guests walk out first as well hence the empty room. Mr chuckle and I walked out to 'All you need is love' by ourselves.




    Us AND MY PARENT'S


    Mr Chuckles folks



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  • Sambarine
    Beginner May 2015
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    Beautiful! Absolutely love your hair, dress, blue nails, and BM dress. Sicily looks fab, too Smiley winking

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  • HelenSomerset
    Beginner September 2014
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    Really enjoyed reading your report (especially the flashes). Taormina really is an absolutely stunning place - you both chose brilliantly well.

    How classy and elegant do you look in that gorgeous dress with those shoes and that hair!

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  • yorkshirekiwi
    Beginner August 2014
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    Awww, Chuckles. I love it! Your dress is gorgeous and everything just looks stunning.

    Congratulations.

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  • Kellym81
    Beginner October 2016
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    Aw, fab report, CV! Looks beautiful…congrats :-)

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  • Lui
    Beginner October 2015
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    Loved reading your report and your whole wedding was absolutely stunning, nothing I didn’t love about it.

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  • jen-lou
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    Lovely report

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  • Karen84
    Beginner July 2016
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    Loved reading your report CV - congratulations! You both look so lovely and happy.

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  • SillyWrong
    Beginner October 2014
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    Aw I really enjoyed reading that - it's nice to have been reading about some of the bits 'live' too, as I was like, "Oh I remember that!" Ha! Gorgeous dress Smiley smile

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  • halloweeny
    Beginner October 2013
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    Lovely report Chuckles! Looks like an all round fabulous day and you looked stunning.

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  • MrsShep
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    Yay!! So good to read this, sounds like it was perfect for you! Love the kissing pic in the room on your own, and the one with the gorgeous backdrop with hubby holding your bouquet! Was there any sqeee'ing, even a little?! Congratulations lovely lady, nice to have you officially on the bench Smiley smile

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  • lilbeth
    Beginner July 2015
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    Congratulations on a fantastic report. Lots of detail and you can never have too many flashes!!

    Really interesting seeing the difference between Italian and British weddings, makes yours really unique for all your guests.

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  • TreacleTart
    Beginner May 2015
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    Awhh - lovely lovely report!! and beautiful photos! there can never be too many photos!! it sounds like you had a wonderful time Smiley smile

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  • Calella
    Beginner August 2016
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    I LOVE your report! Everything looks absolutely gorgeous, and it looks like you had a fantastic time! Congratulations!

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    Beginner October 2015
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    Lovely report! Beautiful pics, looks like you had a fabulous day, you looked stunning x

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  • Arpee
    Beginner August 2016
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    Oh CV this is fab Smiley smile Love all the photos! What a lovely read, thank you!

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  • miss_winter14
    Beginner February 2014
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    LOVE this report! gorgeous piccies! CONGRATULATIONS MRS!!!! ^_^

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  • laurafish
    Beginner July 2016
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    I do enjoy a good report Smiley smile This was lovely to read, looks like a beautiful wedding! Congratulations!

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  • daisymoo86
    Beginner July 2016
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    So lovely! You looked beautiful! Congratulations to you both!!

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  • RogueSnowflake
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    Chucklevision what a great report! And stunning photos. I love your dress! I particularly love the photo of you both coming down the steps. You both look so happy.

    xxx

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    Lovely :-)

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