I've just read a church service sample on yourchurchwedding.org from start to finish and I'm already feeling nervous about repeating everything in front of guests as the vows sounded 'too romantic/slushy' I really do hate doing slushy romantic stuff in front of people (don't ask why, I've no idea).
I also noticed on the service sample it mentioned that the bride and groom kneel down for a blessing, does that HAVE to be done or is it optional?