Hi
Can any of you please let me know how you deal with your in-laws if you find them boring, have nothing in common and somewhat offensive.
For example, when we announced our engagement, FIL2B asked us whether we were having a pre-nup, just in case... WTF?
We were discussing having kids the other day, and MIL said about how her granddaughters would hate it if we had a boy and they can't bear to be in the same room as boys. I know she doesn't (ie MIL) like boys as much as girls, even though she has three boys, but still it's not as if I can: 1) guarantee I have a baby, 2) guarantee its sex. Does this mean she's going to love it less if we do have a boy?
After our wedding, one of my friends mentioned to me that my FIL gave him a 'lecture' about how much money he had. Then my mother told me that FIL had done the same thing to one of our relatives. I mentioned this to another friend, and he said yes, it's true... he had overheard FIL drone on and on about his money to another two of our guests. Personally, I find that a sign of his insecurity really. Money does not buy class.
Also they go on and on about the same things over and over again... same story different day...
I also find that they don't support their son, ie my husband. They promised to do things for him/us re our wedding and let us down.
I think H realises how 'rubbish' they are, but won't really admit it. He says things like 'it doesn't matter', 'it's just a misunderstanding'.
I may be over-reacting because I am a bit sensitive... but I do find it difficult to spend more than a hour or two with them...