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Sparkles82
Beginner April 2013

Could you chuck a few vibes my way please? Update on OP

Sparkles82, 24 August, 2012 at 12:47 Posted on Off Topic Posts 0 166

My boy is in hospital :-(

I am lost without him, rattling about on my own like a spare part.

He got sicky on Monday morning, I thought it was a hangover and berated him muchly for getting sent home from work. Fast forward to Wednesday night and he is still vomiting every half an hour, not managed to keep any fluids down and his blood sugar was all over the shop (he is type 1 diabetic). I started to worry when he said we should think about cancelling our camping trip this weekend.

I sneakily got on the phone to NHS direct, not wanting him to see how worried I was. The lady on the phone asked a few questions and as I soon as I mentioned that his vomit was brown (which I assumed was bile, as his must have been empty) she told me to take him to A&E immediately.

So off we toddled at 8pm on Wednesday. He was admitted, hooked up to fluids, glucose, insulin, antibiotics and paracetamol and blood cultures done. His temp was up at 38.9, but had dropped to 37.8 when I left last night.

It turns out that the diabetc ulcer on his foot, has turned septic, he has septicemia. Along side that, he has infections in his chest, stomach and kidneys. He is having an endoscopy today to check hit stomach as he was coughing up some blood on Thursday.

Just heading back to the hospital now to see how he is. His biggest grumble is that he is nil by mouth and hungry! Bless him.

I hate being without him :-(

*********UPDATE*********

So, this little tale took a dramatic turn yesterday.

I posted the other day that he might have to have surgery on his ulcerated foot. It transpires that it wasnt only ulcerated, it was riddled with infection. The upshot is that at 1am this morning, Stu's left leg was amputated at the knee.

That is all really.... feel a bit numb and a bit dazed.

x

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Latest activity by Fergo, 6 September, 2012 at 11:35
  • Flowmojo
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    Goodness!! how old is he sparkles?

    hes in the best place though, but good job you checked NHS!!!

    I hope he makes a speedy recovery!

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  • karenanne229
    Beginner October 2013
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    Oh goodnes wishing him well as we speak. So sorry to hear that. I hope he gets better soon. x

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  • Sparkles82
    Beginner April 2013
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    He is 36, but has a lot of health issues. His diabetes was undetected for a long time.... it was only ever found because he had a car accident and they tested his sugar as a matter of course. He has been on insulin ever since. Because it was un treated for so long, it has caused a lot of problems.

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  • Holey
    Beginner July 2011
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    Throwing lots of vibes your way Sparkles. My H is type 1 diabetic too so I know how scary things can be with everything that it can cause. Hope he is feeling better soon and they are taking good care of him

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  • sal.san
    Beginner December 2011
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    Awe no Sparkles, this is awful.

    >>>> get well soon vibes for your boy >>>>

    Hugs to you too.

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  • ~Peanut~
    Beginner December 2012
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    Sending big get well soon vibes Sparkles. Well done you for checking with NHS direct.

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  • Tizzie
    Beginner June 2012
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    Lots of vibes headed your way. Hope he's feeling better soon Smiley sad

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  • FaeBelle13
    Beginner April 2013
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    Gosh it sounds like hes really in the wars. Vibes on their way to you, hope he gets better sharpish xxx

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  • S
    Beginner October 2011
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    How scary for you! Sending lots of vibes to Mr Sparkles.

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  • Pompey
    Beginner June 2012
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    Vibes coming your way sparkles. Will be thinking of you and your boy this weekend.

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  • Figs
    Beginner June 2012
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    Tonnes of vibes being chucked Mr Sparkles way.

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  • Vanilla Pod
    Beginner September 2011
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    I really hope Mr S parkles is home and feeling much. much better soon. A big hug for you too as you must be feeling scared yourself. Heres your vibes>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

    Hers your hug?

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  • *Eclair*
    Beginner August 2012
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    Sending you lots of vibes >>>>>> hope he gets better soon.

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  • Pittabre
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    Loads of vibes?

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  • Helenia
    Beginner September 2011
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    Lots of vibes for you both. Hope he starts to get better soon. ?

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  • *Nursey*
    Beginner May 2012
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    Hope he feels better soon x

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  • Tray1980
    Beginner July 2013
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    Lots of vibes for you and Mr Sparkles

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  • Tiny-Tiggs
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    Sending lots of vibes! hope he's recovering

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  • Sparkles82
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    Thanks everyone! I had to giggle last night, he chuntered away about being called Mr Sparkles! Tee hee!!

    He is much better this morning.... his temperature has remained stable since yesterday lunchtime, his endoscopy showed no problems in his tummy, so just waiting for blood cultures and if there is no blood poisoning he MIGHT be allowed home today.... I have everything crossed!

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  • BlueBow
    Beginner December 2013
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    Glad to hear he might be allowed home. Fingers crossed he is!!!

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  • Aurora Borealis
    Beginner June 2013
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    Glad he's feeling better, vibes for him being allowed home soon.

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  • leni-lw!
    Beginner November 2011
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    Glad he's doing better and hope mr sparkles can come home asap Smiley smile

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  • HatTrick
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    Hope he's allowed home today!

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  • Sparkles82
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    He's still not home :-(

    He has been moved to Hull, which is a 40 minute drive away/...... but I dont drive! My sister, brother and In laws have been great offering lifts though.

    It looks like he is going to have some kind of surgery on his ulcerated foot, but not sure what yet :-(

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  • kharv
    Beginner March 2012
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    Really sorry Sparkles Smiley sad

    More vibes for a speedy return home x

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  • Mrs C
    Beginner March 2011
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    Lots of vibes for Mr Sparkles and lots of internet weirdy hugs for you!

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  • Figs
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    Sorry it's not better news yet Sparkles. Sending a new batch of vibes your way - I hope Mr Sparkles is home very soon.

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  • Holey
    Beginner July 2011
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    I was only thinking of you this morning and wondered how Mr Sparkles was doing. Sorry to hear he is still in the hospital, hope everything is sorted for you soon

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  • Sparkles82
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    Edited on OP.

    x

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  • Tray1980
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    OMG Sparkles - I hope that you both get all the help and support that you need with that. We're here if you need to get it off your chest xxx

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  • Holey
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    What a shock for you both, as Tray said I hope you get the help and support you need. Will be thinking of you both

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  • *gnashers*
    Beginner October 2013
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    Exactly what Tray said. I can't even begin to offer any advice but only offer thoughts and internet weirdo hugs x

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