Could you chuck a few vibes my way please? Update on OP

What these lovely ladies said!

lots of love and hugs to you both! x

Gosh, sparkles, sorry to hear about this, my thoughts are with you both. If there's anything we can do, please, please let us know.

I hope he's out of the woods now and he can start his recovery x

So sorry to hear this... if there is anything we can do please shout x

Lots of internet weirdie hugs for you both x

Exactly what everyone else has said. Sending you lots of internet weirdy hugs. x

Jesus. Sorry to hear this Sparkles, I only hope now this means he can start getting better.

Sending you massive hugs xx

Oh god. Sparkles I'm so so sorry. Your poor H.

Am really upset for you xxx

I never know what to say at times like this but I echo everything everyone's said already, and my thoughts are with you both xxxxxxx

Sparkles, am thinking of you and Boy at this time. Please make sure you keep talking to each other and avail yourselves of everything and anything offered to you to make life a little easier in the coming weeks. Take care.

I cannot even begin to contemplate what you are both going through or offer any advice but my thoughts are with you both. Im so very sorry to read this. Internet weirdo hugs to you both. xx

Have only just seen this, so so sorry that you have both had to go through this.

I cannot imagine how you must be feeling at the moment, my thoughts are with you both.

Hopefully, your OH can now start the road to recovery. I hope you have plenty of love and support from family and friends to help you get through this difficult time, x

Thank you all.

While we were waiting for the surgeon last night, we made a pact... as soon as he can walk on his prosthetic leg, we will get married at the next available date at out local registry office. Dont care who is there, who isnt there, who wears what and does what. As long as we leave together as husband and wife.

I am afraid I have to come on here, or facebook and get it all out and have a good cry and a sob and then be brave and strong for him when I head back to the hospital.

xxxx

I think that sounds like a lovely plan Sparkles, and don't worry about venting on here, that's what we are for...come on here, rant away, as much as you need.

Sending you a totally inadequate weirdie internet hug ?

Sparkles that's exactly what we're here for. You come on here and vent, scream, moan - anything you want xxx

Oh my goodness, that was a shock to read, I can't even begin to imagine how you felt. Nothing really to add as the others have said it all. Thinking of you both xxx

Sparkles, this is a wonderful idea. And yes, come on here to vent, scream, cry and moan. We are here for you. xx

Exactly this!

If there is anything you need just ask!

Oh my goodness, I really don't know what to say other than I wish him a full and speedy recovery. Hope you're both doing OK.

Sparkles, looking at the positives (sometimes when you feel numb someone else has to point it out to you) he's much safer now it's been removed and your wedding date isn't too far away (how bloody exciting!). You'll get through this lovelies x

Oh my god!!! So shocked and sorry to read that. I have not met you but I am thinking of you both xx

I love your idea of just getting married, things like this make you so grateful for each other. I am not a hib but if there is anything you need then please let us know. I am sure hitched will help in anyway they can.

Oh god Sparkles. I am so sorry that you and Mr Sparkles are going through this. Sending lots of speedy recovery vibes and thinking of you both. I'm looking forward to seeing the flashes from your upcoming lovely wedding day very soon x

Oh goodness what a shock for you both. Sending huge vibes, your plans to move the wedding forward sound lovely and exactly what I think I would do. Please don't worry about coming on here to vent or cry or anything, thats what we are here for and of course you want to keep a brave face for OH. xx

Anything practical that anyone can do, I'm sure I speak for all of us when I say please just shout out.

I think that's a lovely idea sparkles, sometimes it takes things like this to make us really realise what is important here.

I wish him a speedy recovery and I can't wait to hear that you are husband and wife.

So sorry to hear your update. What a shock. On the upside, he can get on with recovering and hopefully you'll be married before you know it. I think your pact is brilliant and very sweet. Good luck with everything and lots of quick recovery vibes for Mr Sparkles xxxx

Oh my goodness I'm so sorry!! It was a shock to read so I can only imagine how shocked you both must be feeling. Good luck with everything and of course come on here to moan/rant/cry. I think your wedding plan is an excellent idea

Just want to echo what everyone else has said. I'm so sorry, what a huge shock for you.

Thinking of you and your OH.

goodness sparkles. But this could have saved his life no? I dont know whatt o say excpet have a internet weirdie hug ?

It absolutely did Flow... it was literally life or limb. He looks about a million percent better this morning... awake, alert, no pain, no sweats, no vomiting, no fever. He is also being very pragmatic and real about the future too.

x

This is good to hear.

The main thing he is alive and by the sounds of it, sounding perkier already.

Keep us updated of his progress, and if you need any help with bringing the wedding forward, there are a hell of a lot of people on here, who would be more than happy to help ?

x

most definatly!! il over help where i can!

I've heard she makes great cakes, that Flow.

God yeah. Don't know if you'll be having a cake but if you are I'm more than happy to send some toppers when the time comes. Free, obviously.

And any help you need with anything else just give us all a shout.

What Kharv & KB said - just shout and between us we can work stuff out!