General pondering, a friend of mine has just found out her fella has been doing the do with the childminder for the last three months. Now some mutual friends are unsympathetic. I'll make a few pointers and see what you think...
She speaks to him like a dog, quite often in front of other people
She continuously criticises him (what he wears, what he says, how he acts, what he eats, what he drinks and so on)
He has an outdoor manual job which is hard work and when he comes in from work she starts on him again, hen pecks him to start housework/odd jobs
She kicks off if he dozes of in the chair after tea because he isn't giving attention to her and the baby
He's a very chatty fella by nature, she has stopped him being like this with blondes because he has mentioned in the past that he usually went for blondes
There is more but my memory lets me down. I know most people are of the opinion that there is never reason for cheating but I wonder if anyone can see why he has strayed after a few years of being downtrodden. Is it understandable that he has fallen for some affection? I feel very sorry for her but even though I don't agree with cheating I can kind of see how it's happened.