Please excuse the anon - all the usual OH knows i am a member, i have a few friends on here bla bla....If you guess my identity please dont 'out me'
Anyway to the point.
Me and OH have been together 6 years, things are good although we have a very fiery relationship and argue quite a bit about silly little things.
2 weeks ago we went out drinking with 3 of my friends and 2 of his.
We were all really very drunk
My OH smokes as does my friend, when i went outside to the smoking section to see them i saw my so called friend and oh kissing!
I went mad and started shouting and screaming, i hit her and hit him and walked/ran sobbing home. OH ran after me and didnt really have a clue what was going on (he was so drunk) He kept saying sorry and claimed he was just having a laugh (snogging my friend is not funny!)
Friend was texting and calling me all night
Next morning (OH slept on floor in frront room i locked myself in bedroom)
When i got up to tell him to get out he was a mess, said he couldnt remember anything but whatever he did he was sorry. I told him what he did and he was apoligising, saying how he would never do anything to hurt me blaaa blaaa.
Friend was texting me saying how sorry she was, she too cant remember alot bla bla!
I didnt speak to OH for about a week, we lived in the same house but were more like ships in the night. He would email me every day to say sorry, text me etc
Its now been 2 weeks and even though we are on talking terms, he is still on the sofa i just dont know if i can forgive such a betrayal.
We have been together 6 years and until that day he was the love of my life, i still love him but i just dont know if i can forgive and forget and ever trust him again.
I guess my question is, if you in this kind of situation coulkd you forgive your partner ?
Would you throw a otherwise perfect relationship away over a drunken kiss that he seems devestatingly sorry for??
TIA