I had mine few weekends ago, and seen a really negative side to few real close friends and is regretting some of them coming to my wedding! an feel bit rubbish i had this experience , wondered if anyone had same feeling
we went to bath for weekend there was 9 of us, 3 was of my finacee family (2 sisiter in law and his sister) 2 of my friends amazing, and has made me feel more closer to them, 3 were nightmare, 1 was nightmare on first night then fine and other 2 was nightmare (including one of my bridesmaids!) throughout, one was just really moany including telling me off after first night sleep cause i kept her awake as i had panic attack so didnt sleep at all cause i was worried about snoring as she said she doesnt like snores. another thing was she was v negitive about everything as it wasnt her taste, and other one was just rude day before ringing to rant at me becuase she was worried about money and on way home told me who she thinks should be in my wedding party and who she thinks shouldnt, so wasnt happy about who i had choosen (shes a bridesmaid ) and then the 2 nightmares just bitched about my friends who they didnt like all weekend, which included my cheif bridesmaid who im v close to, i was so tired from lack of sleep i didnt say anything, also one of the nightmare ones took photos of me during me having stripper, i asked her to delete one as i was unhappy about how i looked and she refused and moaned that i asked her,
i know i sounds v negative i just was disappointed about how some of my so called friends acted. i understand not enjoying other peoples hen weekends i hated one of my best friends but i joined in never effected how i was during it and she didnt know untill few months after the wedding and we laugh about it now. i just dont want the nightmares now at my wedding because i felt they were out of order. i did love saturday night which included a little party and my stripper!! ?
has anyone else had bad experience on their hen weekend?
