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KLM
Beginner July 2008

Divorced or sinicle people

KLM, 13 June, 2008 at 14:51 Posted on Planning 0 8

Not All but most divorced people are really negative about getting married even single people who have not met 'the one', i was really excited this morning about the fact that we are getting married six weeks tommorow, and that having hair trial tommorow, so I mentioned it to a couple of the girls in our office, one of the girls (older divorced) just pulled a face as though too say "yeah been there, never doing again", i was in a very bad realtionship a few years ago for about 10years but that did not put me off finding love again, it made me more determined that it has to be out there for me - i thought i had found it, but now i know what true love is......

COMPRIMISE, LOVE ONE ANOTHER NO MATTER WHAT, WHATEVER YOU WANT IT TOO BE.

but some people can be so sinicle and have put a small downer on my 6 weeks celebrations....... what do you think

DIVORCEES SINICLE ?

SINGLES - JEALOUS OR SINICLE?

8 replies

Latest activity by crafty em, 13 June, 2008 at 16:38
  • willownat1
    Beginner September 2008
    willownat1 ·
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    Well my OH is divorced and never once did he get cynical about finding love again. And all of my single friends are so happy for me, My best friend has been single for over 6 years and she is getting as excited as I am.

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  • Kebab thief
    Beginner August 2008
    Kebab thief ·
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    I think everyone is different and it's rather unfair to just lump people together into groups and brand them! My H2b is a divorcee and certainly isn't cynical about marriage.

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  • KLM
    Beginner July 2008
    KLM ·
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    Oh no, like i said i dont think everyone is cynical about marriage just a few, might just be me, My gran was divorced after 37 years of marriage and she never trusted anyone ever again, and even now asks if I am doing the right thing. One of my closest friends as been divorced twice and as just got married. It was just a question to put out to the world as thats what i am finding with SOME people

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  • W
    Beginner September 2008
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    I was with my exH for 9.5 years and we only recently got the decree through for the divorce this year.

    We have been seperated for over a year and in that time I had a few flings, but have been very lucky to find love again so quickly with a man I wished I had met 10 years ago.

    We've just put down a deposit on a new house and are starting to plan our future together, which will include marriage and children (hopefully).

    1. I know there are cynical people out there who are single or divorced and all I can say is hard luck to them. Your life is what you make it, don't waste it.

    (Oh and I planned a few weddings for friends while going through my divorce, so I guess that makes me extra fluffy!!)

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  • saz71
    Rockstar December 2008
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    I am getting married for the second time in December (to the right man this time !) so you can add me to the list of non-cynical divorcees!

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  • Bushbb
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    I am on my 2nd marriage - married 7 months today ? and can honestly say that I am over the moon to be married to my lovely OH - my first husband and I were just not that well suited - we didnt realise when we got caught up in the whole wedding scenario. I do know however that he has vowed never to marry again

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  • Kate84
    Beginner August 2009
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    Theres always people with bad attitudes who want to spoil your fun, married, divorced or single. just ignore them and enjoy it. We announced our engagement the same time as two couples/friends announced their divorces and they were happy for us.

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  • crafty em
    Beginner June 2008
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    i am divorced and get married tomorrow to a fantastic man who i have been with 6 nearly 7 years, i have been divorced 9 years, and the way i look at it is (for what its worth) that lifes a journey and would never be cynical about somebody getting married, you've gotta grab what makes you happy, and what is right now may not be so in 10 years time, like me and my ex, but i wouldn't change a thing about my past, it got me where i am today, very very happy!!

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