Well, 'normal' under the circumstances.
A couple I know (no, it's not me!) married 26 years (see, obviously not me!) and not been getting on for several months, perhaps longer.
Things just starting to get better when the husband reveals he has had a fling.
Wife is devastated, obviously. Never thought in a million years he would do that to her.
He's been a complete fool, befriended this woman on nights out at local (wife refused to go out at all for months - not excusing it just explaining how it developed) and then the 'deed' occurred once and then a few weeks later again.
He does not want other woman at all, he desperately wants his wife back but realises he has almost certainly blown it.
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Wife reacts by stating it is over. Final word, over. Will never forgive him. He is not to go back in the house. Not to call or text her and when he does, she screams at him. This is now on day 6 so very early days. He has been in the house a couple of times to get clothes etc, yesterday seemed an improvement as was there about half an hour and had cuppa and a bit of talking. Next day, she screams at him and thumps and whacks him so his arm is covered in bruises, screaming he must get out and pushing him out the door.
Says he needs to accept it is over, won't speak to him.
Next day, allows him in the house but after talking starts screaming and shreiking he must get out, stands out in street shouting and screaming him to leave. Calls police and says he's being violent. Starts hitting him again with a crutch (don't ask!) and then slips and hurts herself and when police arrive tell them he did it. Police aren't interested but ask him to leave nonetheless. She states he is not to return to the house again. And has also says she will get an injunction to prevent him going near her.
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Okay - the anger, the screaming, the devastation must be normal. What I am concerned about is she seems completely hysterical and out of control, re being so violent days later. I don't want to sound a complete idiot though! Thankfully with no direct experience, I'd just like to gauge if this is still normal or not? I've heard of women cutting up clothes etc and worse but I'm really worried about her.
Many thanks.