Am I really weird or has anyone else felt a bit, erm, happy if someone can't make the wedding?! Or am I a total weirdo / cow bag??
Obviously not close friends - would be devastated if one couldn't come, but we've had a couple of OH family and 2 of his friends wives not coming cos they didn't wanna leave their children, and I've been a bit 'yes!' cos of money I think and space mainly - basically we had to trim down the eve list considerably due to deciding we couldn't really justify/afford the extra 1k the venue were charging for us to have another room which would allow the extra guests...so a few people not coming in the day/eve means I can invite what are mainly my extra friends (I seem to know quite a few more people than OH!)
But then tonight my friend rsvp'd to say she was on a hen do that weekend and I had the same feeling! She isn't a close, close pal and it's only evening, but I like her lots, but wasn't bothered at all! It has been troubling me about a few peeps I haven't been able to invite yet who are old friends who live away but who I'd love there, and I can now invite a couple, so that's probably all it is, but I never expected to feel like this!
Maybe it's just a sign I don't care who else is there as long as my new hubby is! Sick!!
