Does your OH know?

Yes he knows, I think it was me asking him though cos I'm nosy but I don't think he would remember if I asked him. Mine is 8 including hubster

Mine knows its been more than him. (he was married for 15 years, whereas I was single for like ever!)

But i havent told him how many & the honest truth is because I lose count when it get to about 24....

Slapper or what!! ? But hey, I had fun & don't regret my past.

Yes, he knows. It's 3 before him, for 4 now.

His is only 2 (including me). We discussed it quite early on I think.

Yeah, we knew everything like that about each other from one month in. His number is higher than mine, I think that is pretty common ?

I was in a 6 year relationship with my ex from the age of 16 so I've only slept with two men including Oh. So yeah he knows. He'd slept with 3 girls before me and his longest relationship was 5 months.

I think we're about the same in numbers.

I couldn't imagine having slept with 20-30 men at my age.

Mine were on my Ibiza '95 holiday! haha!

Kidding! I'm 40 this year, so I think it averages out not too bad.....I hope. ? & I've only been with OH for 3 years.

He's never actually told me, but I'm fairly sure it's only about 4 or 5 including me since he was in an on off relationship with a girl he knew from school for years and years, with a few others when they had their many splits. He also didn't go away to uni, but stayed local living with his parents. I'm not 100% about me, but I am pretty sure it's 9 which isn't horrendous aged 39.

Far too many to be a good Catholic Girl

His is 3, I've told him 3 too, but apparently there's a 4th who swears blind I took his virginity.

No and I dont know his number. I know he had at least 2 serious relationships before me, but thats all I want to know.

He knows I had a long term relationship before him and a couple of shorter ones but I wouldnt tell him things like that.

I messed up. I had told him a number at the beginningish of the relationship and a couple of years ago it came up again and apparently my number didn't match the one i had first told him...oops- trust him to remember this but not a pint of milk.

So, I don't have a deffinite number- I used to care that I couldn't remember but now I don't- the past is the past and all that!!

It is deff more than him- but less than other people in the world haha.

eta I think around 15.

I have told him but I can almost guarantee he won't remember what it is. It's 6 including him but 5 of those were before I met him at 19 years old.

Mine is 3, including H. I met H at 18 and had a 3 year relationship before him so not much time to sleep around, ha ha! I've told H this but he always says he doesn't believe me!! Must think I'm some kinda lying whore!

He told me I was number 20 a few weeks into our relationship... I was shocked and quite embarrassed by my 3... it came out about a year later that I'm more like number 8!

I know we had the conversation but I cant remember his number and I don't think he would remember mine. We don't really care either way. Doesn't bother me. In fact I fing some of his "conquest" stories highly amusing.

Yes, he knows, we spoke about it when we got together. His is the same number too - 0.

Sometimes I wish I'd flattened a bit more grass

? Trust me, you didn't miss much!

I know his number (4 inc. me) but I'm not sure if he knows mine (9). I don't think we've ever had much of a conversation about it tbh! I only know his because he mentioned having been a virgin 'til he was 22.

No, he's never asked.

And I'm not telling you lot either!

Yes he knows...because its only him! We got together when we were 15 so have only slept with eachother.

He was my first but his number is very high (in my opinion!) but I knew before we got together as a mutual friend and my brother all did this innocence test thing as a joke at work.

Spoilsport.

Yep, My H knows. 12 is my magic number.

Yes more pricks then a second hand dartboard!

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Oh Funky

Haha! Love it!!

Thanks Funky - water over the keyboard!!!! ?

He thinks he knows, he doesn't know the real number...I know I was his number 3 ( as far as im aware)!!!

He does know as he was my first. We got together when we were at school and he's only slept with one other person besides me.

I don't know my actual number but I reckon it is around 20. I became sexually active around the age of 19. A few one night stands, flings with male friends, a few casual relationships, some FWB situations. It sounds high but I justify it by thinking that's its only around 4 encounters per year until I settled down with OH at the age of 24ish. Luckily OH hasn't ever wanted to know. He knows it is massively higher than his 2 though.

Your numbers are all so low compared to mine, I feel a right dirty skank now!

I am going to actually have a proper count up now.

Edit - I have counted up 14, 15 if I include OH. Allowing for a couple of drunken one nighters I may have forgotten, I reckon my number is 17/18.

BBB - I read recently that it is statistically impossible for it to be any other way round, women mathematically must have higher numbers than men. It was an article based in USA, but I assume similar for UK. It is something to do with averages and actual population size, plus allowing for the fact that men exaggerate whereas women play down their true number in surveys. http://www.cracked.com/quick-fixes/mathematical-proof-that-media-sexist-bad-at-math/

Interesting isn't it, that the stereotypical view is that men have more partners, but this fairly random cross section of views shows most of us have had more partners than our menfolk!

I think (!) mine is 14 but OH thinks it's lower. His is a lot lower (I'm his 2nd I think) and I think he felt conscious of this initially, because he told me it was more! I'm aware mine is above average but it doesn't bother me. It was largely a result of 6 years at university, being free and single. I've never cheated on anyone I've been with, so was all in the name of good fun as far as I'm concerned...