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smilesjp
Beginner July 2015

Does your OH notice...

smilesjp, 31 July, 2014 at 16:59 Posted on Off Topic Posts 0 18

If you ever get your hair cut/dyed? Mine doesn't, although I never drastically change it. I thought maybe telling him I'm getting my hair cut would work, but not so much. He now just randomly blurts it out "Your hair looks nice" if he thinks it's nearing the time for me to get my hair cut..

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Latest activity by Helenia, 1 August, 2014 at 10:50
  • Arquard
    Beginner May 2011
    Arquard ·
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    I went from brunette to blonde and it took him over an hour to notice.....

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  • Holey
    Beginner July 2011
    Holey ·
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    I would only really expect* him to notice if it was something drastic but to be honest normally he'll know I'm going anyway so will say something when I get back.

    *expect is the wrong word here but don't know what the alternative is!

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  • ebony_rose
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    My H will notice every little change I make to my appearance.

    When I make big changes to the house however, it can take months until he notices.

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  • *J9*
    VIP March 2014
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    Mine usually notices if I get mine dyed as it's usually a bit darker for a little while. He comments when he knows I've had it cut but not sure he'd notice unless it was a big change. I only ever have a trim.

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  • InkedDoll
    VIP January 2015
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    So far I've had maybe 6 haircuts in the 20 months we've been together, and the salon i go to is in my hometown 35 miles away (cheaper than getting it done in Manchester city centre even when you include the train fare), so he always knows I'm getting it cut. And I've never had it dyed as I'm growing out a colour. So I don't have enough evidence to say really. But I like to think he would notice if it was anything more than a trim.

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  • CrazyRatLady
    Expert September 2014
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    I make OH dye my hair for me so he always knows. Otherwise I doubt he would notice. I trim my own fringe and sometimes he will just come in and look at me strangely then three days later ask if I have had my hair cut!

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  • kimiu
    Beginner June 2015
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    My h2b always notices. my ex husband, on the other hand wouldn't have noticed if I was wearing a wig or shaved my head.....

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  • ~Peanut~
    Beginner December 2012
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    Mine does, he even notices when my Grandma has had her hair done and it looks the same to me! He is a bit of a metrosexual though.

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  • yorkshirekiwi
    Beginner August 2014
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    Mine doesnt get the chance to notice. I always tell him if I'm going to the hairdresser's, just cos it means ill be late home from work and might need a lift. I didn't warn him there'd be a major change when I went from blonde to brunette and he drove straight past me when he came to pick me up!

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  • LittleSnowflake
    Beginner January 2016
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    My OH is quick on the ball, especially when I move something of his. So yeh he doesn't miss a thing!!

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  • S
    Beginner October 2011
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    I can't remember but I'm having my hair cut tonight so I'll see if he notices. My hair is part down my back and I'm having it cut to just shoulder length.

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  • Erin8
    Beginner June 2014
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    He never notices! He might remember l have an appointment and comment on my hair. But he does it because he feels like he should rather than noticing a difference

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  • Panjita
    Beginner May 2011
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    I do this (but do a 70 mile drive to my hometown) so H always knows i've had it done because of the logistics involved. Not sure he would notice if it was a local salon?

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  • InkedDoll
    VIP January 2015
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    The hairdresser I go to has been cutting my hair since I was a baby. I've had it cut elsewhere maybe 3 times in my life. Haircuts make me super anxious and he's the only one I feel comfortable with. He must be close to retirement age now and I have no idea what I'll do without him!

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  • Knees
    VIP August 2012
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    Mine pretty much always knows when I'm going to the hairdressers, but even if he knows he never says anything unless I ask him!

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  • bliss_balloons
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    I don't get mine cut that often so it usually quite a drastic change which he notices. I never notice when he's had his cut!

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  • Helenia
    Beginner September 2011
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    I'm getting mine cut this afternoon, we shall see if he notices!

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