Domestic Disharmony..

Aww hugs, theres every chance that he's feeling the same. Make him a brew and that should relax things xxx

I know its horrible but the only thing to do is confront it, if it blows up it blows up and hopefully over but theres no point in dragging an arguement on.

hope it all goes well

xxx

His dinners ready.....im just going to eat mine now...... this isnt the type of falling out where making up is easy.... hes says the same things, i say the same answer and we carry on till the whole thing rears its ugly head again. Rubbish!

Oh honey big hugs and i hope you get this sorted asap x

Teehee hope you sort it, big hugs here too and good vibes coming your way.

My h2b hates it when I give him the silent treatment, he would prefer me shouting at him ?

It's bound to be something that you can both compromise on (sorry not sure if you have mentioned in a previous post or not what has been going on ☹️), even if you are both strong characters both of you know sense so try not to worry your wee head about it ?

Let him have his dinner and tell him you need to talk and that you will try and understand his point of view and he should do the same, it will all work out x

Hi Teehee....long time no speak. Arguments are awful . I usually make OH a coffee and instead of starting the row again, I ask normal questions; how was your day? Do you fancy.....for tea? Then when I know I can speak without getting shouty I ask him if he is ok. usually after that we start to talk but listen to each other and say stuff like...'I totally understand what you are saying, blah blah'. Use your teaching skills.....do the 'kiss-kick' thing, starting with a positive makes the negative less bitter to take.

Hope you get it sorted honey

x

The "not talking" arguments are the worst ones.

hope things are ok when he comes home - sit down, have a chat and if you can both compromise (on whatever it is) then hopefull you can meet somewhere in the middle???

Good luck

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compromise - Hmm.... tried that. This is a 3 year long thing and he loves to mention that. A lot. Its all me y'see, me with 'the problem', me who wont 'get things sorted'...........

He eventually surfaced, ate dinner, watched half the Simpsons and now hes back on his Pc....I'm just gonna hide in here for a while.... [crawls under the rug......]

It'll be fine....... really. Thanks for replying xx

Teehee work at it, you'll be fine. I don't know your situ but my sister got married about 6 months ago and they have been constantly arguing since the wedding - I've had hours over the phone with her practically in tears (she's in the US with only his family around) - but in the last couple of weeks things have really calmed down and much much better - it wasn't anything new - it was the same old arguments, but for some reason the fact it was now her 'husband' and not just her boyfriend made it all worse. the more you know someone - the more you know what hurts them and its really easy for things to escalate quickly.

talk things through when you've both passed the pissed off stage, you'll get through it. xxx

Ps love your new avatar - saucy......

Elizabeth.... I know any sign language I used certainly wont be BSL!!!!

Are you having your wedding ceremony interpreted? Do you have to pay for that?

(One of my best pals is deaf but shes got no intention of getting hitched!)

Cheers Tango, I'm trying to remember my christmas name from last year too.... Tho I'm leaning towards Teeheeyouchristmasguys....but think its was something totally diffy!

Oh Nona! I hope you're ok! Big hugs coming your way ?. I don't really have much advice as I'm usually the one guilty of sitting and sulking although OH usually keeps trying to hug me and that eventually works! (worth a try?)

I'm thinking 22Pudding (or scrap the 22) - 'cos that more or less what I feel like at the mo - can't stop stuffing my face! must be that self-destruct button on again...

I'm afraid I've been out of action for a few days with this awful sickness bug that's going round so I think I may have missed something on this? Hope you've managed to sort things out teehee.

Hi teehee, hope everything was ok last night and you got it sorted. x

Hi Teehee, I'm a bit late to this post as I've not been hitching the past few days. Bad me!!

I hope you managed to sort everything out. I hate the silent treatment. My OH always uses it, but I normally scream, shout then cry. It always works! lol

Lxx

Hey Teehee,

I would hate the silent treatment, would drive me nut's and I find it exhausting and really can't be bothered with it.

It's obviously something that is going to need to be resolved eventually. When I disagree with other half, we sit down with no distractions and we take turns top talk, we don't interupt each other then we try and find the middle ground. This way it's all done and dusted and doesn't keep rearing it's head.

Hope you sort it all out xxxx