Dont like my wedding co-ordinator UPDATE!

If he is that bad, he will be out of a job well before your wedding. Try not to let it worry you (I know that is hard) but there is a very good chance he will be gone by the time of your wedding and you might have someone really lovely and enthusiastic.

Hiya,

Sorry that you feel so disapointed, its terrible when you are really looking forward to something and made to feel like that.

Is it to late to change the venue? , i would definantly be making some type of complaint against him, after all its your big day, and he should be trying to accomodate your wishes..

Just remember they are there to provide a service which you are paying for and it should be the way you want it,. Tell him how you feel about his attitude and theaten to go elsewhere!!

Kelly

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I think you could be right. I iunderstand he has be brought in turn the place around, however hes not going to do it with that attitude.

Kalin - I did think about complaining but if he does stay I have to work with him and worried how that would affect our relationship. I just hope he falls flat on his face and goes.

Thank you for posting Claire, now being the second person to suggest complaining (and with your experience) Im now in two minds about it.

I dont like making a fuss unless I have to and was hoping this might blow over. He might either go or stop being so power crazy. If there was a problem the the food, cleaniness etc im the first to complain, but because it was about him as a person and his manner, I think its a person attack and hate that.

Why don't you send a polite but to the point e-mail to him explaining why you were disappointed about your meeting on Saturday. Don't threaten or demand anything - just let him know how you feel. I would also copy in the manager just so they are aware of what has happened.

Hope you feel better about it all - its such a big day and its a shame if you are unhappy with somebody that plays such a key role in making it all run smoothly.

My wedding co ordinator changed in November and some things she said were different to my original one (Ie prices of thing) but luckily my orginal one is back, i'm much happier as she is much more down to earth.

do you have a contract written?because anything you want should be formalised in your contract regardless of the co ordinators opinions of it!!! he's probably just being hooty snooty because your making him work . and he doesn't get to enjoy any parties he has to co ordinate!!!!

Hello

Sorry to hear your coordinator is being a pain. Lots of couples come to me because of this... my advise is to find out if you could have someone else on the day instead of him... nothing worse than worrying that he hasn;t got your best interest at heart. Have a quiet word with the manager see if they can help.

HTH

Kim x

I totally agree with Claire - nip it in the bud send a email being poilte but firm I also work in sales, recruitment and again like claire if I spoke to my clients or candidates like that I wouldnt be around for long - its a shame people who clearly rnt a people person working in the service industry!!! hope it works out for you

xx

Even if you don't like making a fuss it will only worry you more if you do nothing, so if you're scared write it in an email definitely cc-ing to his boss, that will put the wind up him and i'd imagine you will get an upgrade on service pretty much straight away. just don't do nothing. and definitely don't let it worry you. it's probably not just you this has happened to but if no one speaks up and "makes a fuss" he'll just get to upset more people - not good xx

Update

Yay! Well done for you. Hope you can go forward now all happy.?

Thats great news and one less thing to worry about!

Thats fantastic, means you can get back to enjoying the planning again! xx

Glad to hear a positive update!

Sounds like you had a wee bit of a nitemare but looks like all turned out well in the end for you!!!

debs xo

Yay, im as happy as pig in ....

full steam ahead now .

Thats fantastic news!!!

I'm so pleased for you ?

xxx

I seem to have come in on this a tad late in the day but im glad you have it all but sorted and i hope things go well for you on saturday! x

Yay!!! fabby news ?

Glad you managed to get it all sorted. Back to the planning then!!!

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Brilliant news! Glad everything is sorted! I would mention that discounted rooms would make up for the stress the other man caused you!

Brilliant news, you see I said he'd be gone before your wedding? I hope you like the manager as much in person as on the phone. Have a great Saturday

So pleased for you Charlie - it was the perfect outcome