*DRESS FLASH*. we finally told everyone 136 days to go.

Beautiful dress! And sod everyone else, you totally deserve it x

Your dress is gorgeous. Well done for such a positive attitude and for doing what's right for you and your husband to be. It really annoys me that people can make snide remarks about age to people they are supposed to love and support. Love is love, and should always be celebrated. Sounds like you've had a rough time recently and I think your plans sound marvellous.

Found it! This is me in my dress that I love. Even with no make up and short unruly chemo curls.

How lovely! What a lovely way to celebrate life and finishing treatment! All the best and happy planning x

oh and dress is beautiful by the way!!

Awww the dress is gorgeous! You definitely deserve this happiness and it will be wonderful and special for you! ?❤️

Thank you, I needed a bit of confidence back after the last couple of days x

Jayne, may I say you look absolutely stunning and look at your figure. I'm 27, with figure envy!! Please don't listen to the people who just cannot be happy for you and have to try and put you down, irrelevant of your age your a bride and you deserve to be excited :-) look forward to seeing more of your flashes as the time goes on!!

Jayne, I rarely comment on here (but I lurk ?), but i want to say congratulations on getting thru the treatment!

Forget what anyone else says, its your life, your love, your choice to live it as want.

I hope you have a fantastic time in Lapland (I'm sure you will) and you look absolutely stunning in your beautiful dress x

Aww congrats, it sound so romantic, sod everyone else. its your day

you look stunning in your dress btw xxx

Totally agree. I'm 28 and feeling jealous too! I'm too short to pull off a dress this shape for one thing. Looking great and really glad things are looking up for you - just keep the focus on you and your other half as you have been and enjoy. You deserve it! xx

I thought the dress looked lovely on the mannequin but it looks even better on you!

You look amazing in your dress and you totally deserve your special day. Good luck with the rest of your planning xx

Ahh thank you ladies. Confidence restored. No idea what to do with those chemo curls! I think it's going to have to be a case of they are what they are and ignore/embrace them.

You look absolutely amazing!! A huge congratulations for getting through treatment and I hope you have the most magical wedding day!

Wow Jayne you look stunning! What a dress! I'm so jealous. I'm sure everything will turnout perfectly for you and hubby to be ? xxx

I think embrace them, they are a sign of your strength and your determination to get through one of the worse things you could go through.

Perhaps a pretty headband or something if your inclined x

Lol I tried the headbands. A side one flattens the curls on that one side and makes the rest look like I'm having a bad hair day! So I bought one with sparkles in the middle instead and it disappears into the curls never to be seen again.

Did consider a birdcage veil but not tried any yet.

Might just be curls and earrings!

You look gorgeous in that dress! xx

You look amazing Jayne, huge congratulations!

You look flipping fantastic. And in all honestly had you not mentioned the chemo I would just have thought you were one of the lucky women that can pull off short hair, it looks fab!

Oh and yeah, sod everyone else. You've definitely earned the right to do whatever you want!

You look fantastic in that dress! If you're seriously worried about your hair, you could go for a wig, but I honestly don't think you need it. Maybe a sparkly necklace and some drop earrings? Having short hair means that you can afford to really make the most of your jewellery, because it's not going to be hidden.by hair hanging over your shoulders. If you want something in your hair, how about those individual gems that can be woven in?

I did consider a wig for all of 30 seconds but I didn't wear my wig more than twice during chemo. The hair is a big change from a blonde Bob I had before it fell out but at the end of the day I want to look like me and this is now me. it just might take a little while to get used to the new me lol. The comments of what am I going to do with my hair threw me as there isn't much I can do with my hair. I would Like to try on a birdcage veil but think it's likely I will wear nothing on my curls and add some lovely earrings. Thanks for that. X

Wow, amazing dress, you look lovely!

Life is too short to worry about what other people think so do what makes you happy I say! X

Congrats, beautiful dress and well done for having such a great positive attitude

Gorgeous dress and gorgeous curls- I've always wanted curls and never achieved it! Embrace your hair as it is- it's a symbol of your health and recovery and looks great even if it doesn't feel quite like 'you'! Enjoy every minute of your day and sod everyone else- it's YOUR wedding and will no doubt be magical! Oh, love the bouquet too- elegant, simple, sparkly and stunning

Jayne you look sensational in your dress! It's such a shame that people feel the need to be negative, but screw 'em!

Your hair looks beautiful, embrace the curls, it shows how far you've come. Well done for getting through your treatment x

You look absolutely gorgeous in your dress, and the flowers are lovely to.
Stuff what everyone else says you deserve every happiness ❤️

Thank you ladies. Blues dispersed and confidence restored. I KNOW it's the right dress for me and you're right stuff everyone else and their why bothers and negativity. It's not like they are even invited for gods sake we are eloping so why does it matter to them!

As long as I knock my other halls socks off that's all that matters

Jayne, it all looks amazing - and thank you for the 'official' intro!

Already looking forward to your report and more flashes

Jayne you look stunning in your dress.

I know exactly what you mean about siblings being the worst. My brother has never congratulated the h2b and I, and in fact is asking mum a load of questions about the food, bloody FOOD!!!!

Sod the lot of 'em, and enjoy your dream wedding!

Roger.

Tell me about it. It's not so bad for me in as much as no-one is coming but for you you are wasting an invitation on them when it could go to a friend and paying to feed them!

You look absolutely amazing in that dress and it is an amazing way to celebrate the end of your treatment!! My mum has just finished chemo and her hair has the same curls as yours. I have bought her a fascinator but actually I think she should just leave it bare and embrace it! I think someone said his earlier - it's a sign of how far you have come! X