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PinkButterfly
Beginner June 2014

Dress shopping.... Again!

PinkButterfly, 1 July, 2013 at 09:52 Posted on Planning 0 26

I love shopping but I'm so done with it now.... Tried on like a hundred wedding dresses already.

anyway last time I tried on a dress I liked for a second time that I had more or less decided on... Then the lady threw a spanner in the works and pulled out a dress she thought would look good on me and persuaded me to try it on... Looking at it on the hanger I would never have picked it out! But she was right it looked amazing on and now I don't know...

this was two weeks ago I left to think about it and go back today with my mum to try them both on AGAIN!

i only have pictures of myself in one of the dresses because the other designer doesn't allow pics.... However reluctant to post pics of myself online so I've pulled picture from designer websites.

The first dress is by intuzuri and called angelique


The model does it no justice this dress looked way nicer on me...

this second dress is by Justin Alexander.... I never ever thought I'd be considering one of these dresses because I'm not a fan at all



This dress is so structured and looks amazing on feel like an angel moving around in it... The more I look at it the more I love it, can't wait to try it on again today!

I know which way I'm leaning, but keen to know the thought of others.

who knew it be so hard to choose a dress for one day!

26 replies

Latest activity by Italybride14, 2 July, 2013 at 09:29
  • tayto
    Beginner May 2013
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    From reading your post, it sounds like you're leaning more towards the Justin Alexander one so I would recommend you go for that one. It is a fab dress and the detailing on the back/shoulders is fab!

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  • Italybride14
    Beginner May 2014
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    They are both gorgeous dresses and completely my style too! In fact, I'm sure I tried on the JA one! It's difficult to say without seeing you in them. The first one looks too big for the model! If I was to choose, I would say JA. It's stunning and has more of a wow factor. Obviously, this is judging by the model pics!

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  • N
    Beginner July 2014
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    I have the same problem! I love two dresses and cant choose now! I even tried to try even more dresses on as someone said if I cant choose its not the right dress....but that didn't work either as the other dresses I tried didn't compare.

    I went back and tried them on for a second time but I'm going back for a third as one of the dresses in the shop doesn't fit me but the same dress is in a different shop in my size so I need to go to both shops on the same day and I have to force myself into making a decision ?

    I like the look of the first one but its does look really long on that model.

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  • N
    Beginner July 2014
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    I have the same problem! I love two dresses and cant choose now! I even tried to try even more dresses on as someone said if I cant choose its not the right dress....but that didn't work either as the other dresses I tried didn't compare.

    I went back and tried them on for a second time but I'm going back for a third as one of the dresses in the shop doesn't fit me but the same dress is in a different shop in my size so I need to go to both shops on the same day and I have to force myself into making a decision ?

    I like the look of the first one but its does look really long on that model.

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  • Mrs Monkey
    Beginner July 2013
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    Personally I prefer the second dress, I like the lace detail at the top and the silver around the waist.

    They are both gorgeous though.

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  • suzysimpson
    Beginner August 2013
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    Like others have said it does sound like you are leaning towards the JA one! And I can't blame you, it's gorgeous, I tried it on too and loved it, but the dress shop couldn't guarantee it would arrive in time for my wedding (I left dress shopping super late!) so I went with another designer.

    They are both beautiful dresses, I can see why you're having a hard time deciding!

    What is your venue like, and what kind of overall look are you going for? Try and imagine which dress would fit in with your overall style for the day. That's all I can suggest Smiley smile

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  • PinkButterfly
    Beginner June 2014
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    Yes I'm leaving towards the JA dress... I wasn't keen on the high neck but it definately growing on me! Really looking forward to trying it on again!

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  • Kentish Gal
    Beginner July 2013
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    I think you should post a pic of you in the one you have.

    I prefer the first dress, myself. "Controversial". Lol. Both beautiful though.

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  • PinkButterfly
    Beginner June 2014
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    Me in the intuzuri gown...

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    Will prob take these pics down again later.... Argh I just don't know! I love both dresses! Will try to take a sneaky picture of the JA dress today!

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  • Kentish Gal
    Beginner July 2013
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    The back of that, with a veil like that.... stunning. Totally the opposite of everything I've chosen and I love it!

    I think you would lose the effect of the back of the other one with a fancy veil. Smiley smile

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  • B
    Beginner July 2014
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    I think there are a couple of things you need to think about before you make your decision:

    1) How are you wearing your hair? If you are having it half-up or down, you will lose the detail on the back of the second dress, so I would go for the first, and;

    2) Make sure you can sit down comfortably in them - fishtails are really difficult to sit down in!

    Hope that helps x

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  • C
    Beginner August 2014
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    Both stunning dressess - i prefer the first one personally and you look AMAZING in it. The second one for me is a bit too covered up although lovely detail. Much prefer the first.

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  • Love&Lavender
    Beginner September 2014
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    That looks amazing on you, the detail is so pretty ?

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  • suzysimpson
    Beginner August 2013
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    OMG the Intuzuri gown looks amazing on you! It doesn't look half as good as on that daft model who must have four-foot legs to wear a dress *that* long.

    Having seen your picture now I think I'd go for the Intuzuri dress, you have a similar figure to me and I suited lower necklines better... I thought my chest disappeared a bit in the JA dress, thought that might have been because it was a size too small lol.

    But try and get a sneaky pic of you in the JA so we can compare!!

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  • ForTheLoveOfMrsBrown
    Beginner January 2012
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    On the models, I prefer the second one - with wedding dresses, I'm all about the back. However, the first looks fab on you (although the back detailing looks slightly different compared to the model?).

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  • PinkButterfly
    Beginner June 2014
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    Thanks everyone for your input! I tried on both dresses again and while I do love the JA dress! The intuzuri is more me and this is what I've gone with!

    its a gorgeous dress and looks amazing on, can't wait to try it on in my size but going to have to wait a while for that! Think I just needed to see it on again...

    OMG I've got a dress another box on the list ticked!

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  • F&GBride
    Beginner May 2014
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    You did look stunning in that dress. Glad you're pleased with your decision. Exciting times!

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  • Mrspetal
    Beginner February 2014
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    Love that 1st dress!! Gorgeous on u. X

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  • The Little Jewellery Box
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    Yay! That dress is gorgeous and looks stunning on you.

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  • Bookish
    Beginner August 2014
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    Only just seen this but I think you look stunning in the Intuzuri and I'm really glad you went for it Smiley smile

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  • Trish2014
    Beginner June 2014
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    I saw this earlier and was swaying towards the JA dress. But having seen the photo of you in the Inturzuri dress it looks absolutely amazing - so much better on you than on the model. Definitely a good choice I would say!

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  • havecreditwillwed
    Beginner August 2013
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    You have a really good figure, so basically everything is going to look awesome on you! I also tried that JA and whilst I really loved the lace, for me I felt the neckline was a little high and the waist wasnt sitting quite right on me as I am not very tall. I went for Justin Alexander 8605 which essentially the same shape, but stapless (comes with a little jacket) and has really full on lace.

    The Justin Alexander dresses are made so beautifully and having mine altered has been a total dream. The seamstress at my shop actually said that JA dresses are so well made and so well finished that you can wear them inside out - all the internal seams are so beautifully finished!

    Mine holds in my tummy, feels secure and just wonderful!

    You look gorgeous in the first dress too though, you are basically not going to make a bad decision here. Have you got enough time to have a little bit more of a think?

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  • estilomodabridal
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    They are both gorgeous but i would say, Follow your heart

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  • Italybride14
    Beginner May 2014
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    Well, the photo of you changes everything! That first dress looks amazing on you! You have an amazing figure and it really shows it off. You've definitely made the right decision! It's a stunner! I love how different dresses look than in model pictures! My dress looks rubbish in the model pictures too!

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