Dress wobbles! *update with flash*

I did have this feeling with my first dress and then I tried on my now new dress and loved it straight away. I knew the feelings where justified and although the first one is beautiful its not the one for me.

Try it on again, try some others and see how you feel, but only if you can change your current dress otherwise you are just going to get yourself more down..

Maybe a little flash?

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I just phoned the shop i bought it from to ask them if i found another dress within their shop would they transfer the deposit over. The woman isnt sure so she's going to phone me back! The dress might still be the one but i just dont know how to shake this feeling, am i being really silly?

I dont have a picture of me in the dress but heres a pic of the dress

I had this feeling I went for the romantica Wallis and payed the deposit but I kept having doubts about it I would have nightmares and everything

I loved the dress I just dont know what it was just had thisfunny feeling

I have now changed the dress to romantica Della and I love it just got a bit worried that it might be to plain ( for what people will expect) but I do love it so much and glad that the shop let me use the deposit to buy this dress now

if you have a feeling of exitment to wear it then you know its the one

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Ps... lol

I think you dress looks stunning in the picture

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That dress is simply stunning, very similiar to a Ronald Joyce one I tried on!

I do knwo what you mean though. I tried a dress on in the boutique I have ordered it from and loved it, fell head over in love and mum loved it too. I went back again for a fitting and tried a completely different dress on and fell in love instantly with that and my mum got all emotional! I was so glad I went back and tried another one on.

I think you should be able to swap it as long as it's not already made. I ordered my dress in July but she said she wouldn't put my order officially in until I have my first measurements which is in two weeks so I have up until then to change my mind.

I'm glad you like the dress ladies. Anyone i show it to does seem to love it! I think im finding it hard because its nothing like the dress i thought i would end up with. The type of dress i loved was anything but white and loads of ruffles etc. I dont know if thats just what is putting me off!

I have put £200 down but the dress hasnt been ordered/i havent been measured for it. Everytime i go to make an appointment to get measured something happens and i cant go (the shop is 45 minutes drive and i dont drive, it isnt easy to get to). I dont know if thats a sign or if im just trying to find reasons behind it lol x

If you haven't got that 'SQUEEEEEE' feeling about it, then it's probably not The One and you really should try on another before you make a proper commitment to this dress and end up regretting it. If they haven't ordered anything in yet, I don't see why they can't transfer the deposit.

There must be something in the air for dress wobbles as I've been in a state over the same thing all day!

Hello! I am new to the forum and I am having the same feelings about my dress.

That dress you have picked is gorgeous, but if the feeling is not there I would perhaps try something else. I have bought my dress already vintage late 60's evening dress. Its very me but I am concerned its not a 'wedding dress'

Go back, have another try on, see if you get that 'spark' if you dont try and negotiate with your dress shop about transferring deposit over, you may try some others on and then nothing compares to this one.

I think this dress is gorgeous, but if you dont feel right try something else. Its your decision and your day, take a bridesmaid with you to get some support and another opinion.

Hope it goes ok

xxx

Hi,

I am having major wobbles right now. I feel I rushed into buying my dress wihtout looking at it properly. It is Ellis 11135 and i'm not sure I like the back.

I went back to try it on today and still feel a bit unsure about it. I can see it is stunning and makes my figure look great, but I don't like it from side view. I tried on another dress, Pronovias Nepal, and am seriously considering changing it. I felt so much happier and comfortable with it.

It's difficult, I can see Ellis 11135 is so glam but I think I would regret it. Not sure!!!!!! Have to go back again.

Dress wobbles are very common, but if you are constantly losing sleep (like me!), it may be a good idea to look around and see if there is anything you prefer.

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Wowee. Absolutley stunning. I prefer it on you than the model too. x

Just wanted to say the dress looks so much nicer on you than the model and it is stunning x

REALLY suits you! Don't change it

Your dress is gorgeous!!

Is it a Maggie sottero By any chance??

I havent had any dress wobbles with mine so cant really comment, but you look stunning in it and shouldnt change it!! xxxx

I have also found my dress and no exactly what you mean by worried that your missing out on something else, I feel like that too. But Im sure it's fine! I keep trying not to look at any pics whatsoever of any dresses

I'm glad you love your dress again because it is absolutely stunning and really suits you! I keep having similar wobbles, keep wondering if I rushed into it and didn't try enough dresses on or visit enough shops. People saying "what, already??" didn't help either. Maybe I should try mine on again!

I have to say the dress looks 10 times better on you than on the model! You look amazing

Firstly you look stunning!! but for the thing you wrote in bold about your mil.........Do you think this may be the reason you feel you are 'missing' something? because she picked it out first?? I know everyone dreams of seeing thier dress and literally their breath being taken away by 'the one' maybe (sub consiously) you wanted to 'find' it not someone else??

im not explaining myself very well i know sorry-anyway you do look gorgeous in that dress x

Oooo Lusmummy - that dress looks fabulous on you, and so much better than on the model. You are absolutely stunning!! x

You look amazing in that dress! And I agree with the others that you looks so much better in it than the model does. x

Oh you look superb in it - is that by any chance a Maggie? i recognise the dress but can't remember the name - and you are right, it's very flattering! I am having same feelings. I went last Sat to try on a dress I loved and hunted for all over Yorkshire and it brought tears to my eyes when i finally had it on plus the tiara the lady gave me "to look like the finished article" yet I still have doubts and especially looking at the other girls who were trying on dresses I kept thinking, oh no hers looks so much nicer!

Thank you all so much ladies, i feel a million times better now thank you very much

Im glad you all think it looks better on me than the skinny model lol!

Bailey yes its a maggie dress its called brianna

Amythest - i get what you're saying and i had thought that. Maybe it is that, the dress on the hanger doesnt take my breath away but on it does. All bad feelings i had have went away

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Oh yay glad you feel better.....easy for me to say but now stop looking at all other dresses and keep smiling about your own gorgeous one!

Thank you again amythest, i wont be trying anymore on

I found a few dresses online that i loved so i tried them on last week and they didnt look as good on me or make me feel as good as my dress does. So i know i can rule them all out. Im so glad i went back and just tried a few on!

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WOOOOOWWWWWW!!!!

Stunning and sexy

100% better on you than model!!

Now IM HAVING DRESS WOBBLES!!!

Thank you so much ladies

Heres another few pics for you!

The back

And the way the dress 'swishes' round. Excuse the silly faces!