Need a little bit of advice.
I have two friends from Uni who I have had on my guest list (with their boyfriends) - we used to be very close in the second year of Uni, then drifted slightly in the third year (we graduated 2013), but I still classed them as good friends. Since graduation though, I speak to them very occasionally & I think the last time I saw one girl was at my hen-do in September (can't remember the last time I saw her before then), and the other girl I'm pretty sure I saw around July 2014.
Both made it onto the guest list & were sent save the date's with everyone else- but I don't think I was really thinking at the time, and did it more out of habit and being polite more than anything.
I'm starting to doubt as to whether I really want them at the wedding, because I really don't speak to them anymore - & it's not because we've fallen out, really. We've just drifted and all live apart- I don't think I would miss them if they weren't there.
Due to us not speaking though, I think it would be really awkward to address the fact that I won't be sending them an invite, especially as they have a STD (although one girl hasn't even spoken to me since the STD was received almost a year ago)..
Do I just go ahead and take them off the list, not send an invite out, and hope they catch on..?
UPDATE:
Thanks for the advice everyone.
The two girls really aren't the kind of people to have arranged anything like transport or hotels so soon- they would probably do it about a week before the wedding, so that's not something I'm worried about.
I understand that it would be rude not to invite my friend who has been to my hen-do though, you're right. But it does make it trickier if I invite her but not my other friend.
I am toying with maybe just sending out the invites and seeing how they RSVP- I do think that the girl who came to my hen-do will come, but I doubt the other girl will even RSVP so that will have sorted itself.