After 8 years, we broke up. We still had to live together for a few months till he got sorted with a new place.
Anyhoo, he moved round the corner and being the adults we are we kept in touch quite amicably. Didnt seem awkward or nuffin but I didnt encourage it. Then, one year, he moved to another city and I met my fiance.
However, he kept in touch with emails and texts and then, fortunately, he lost his fone with my number so phew! texts stopped. Now I get an email every 6 months or so, or summin daft sent to me. Today I have opened up inbox to find a 'Hello im drunk, how are you?' email.
Last time I replied to him I think was in the new year saying Hello I'm getting married. Or maybe it was in early June in reply to a happy birthday mail saying Hello I'm planning my wedding. Both replys were out of courtesy as I ignored many of his emails.
do i reply to aforementioned drunk email with 'Im fine thanks' or do I just ignore it.....I really dont like keeping in touch, even minimally and already having the nightmares that hes gonna turn up on my wedding day and ruin it totally. Advise me girls. Can I be a grown up or should I be a hearltess b!tch?