Hey,
Is there anyone who can offer advice or who has been in similar position??
Mu oldest brother ( i have three) and his wife have gone through a break up and are not on friendly terms. However I would still like her at my wedding as personally I have no issues with her - in fact she was the first to offer to help plan my wedding! I decided to take the direct route and advise my brother of my intention in which his reply was if she went he wouldn't be attending. I then went to see her ( and my nephews) and said that I know things between them are not good but if she could I would love her to come to my wedding. She advised she would have to see how they were doing and whether they were speaking before the day to make decision but was touched by the invite.
I personally don't think I have done anything untoward or cruel as I was honest and upfront about the whole ordeal. Has anyone else had this happened to them? And did all go ok in the end?
Thanks
Nichole