f.a.o. Lady Zith

Aww - thank you so much. I just popped on to do an update!

I put him on the megabus at 10.10 this morning, then headed into work for my last day in this job! Safe to say today is a bit weird - but I'm feeling positive albeit exhausted.

Last night was hideous - he decided we should play the "happy families isn't it sad things are over let's reminisce" game. Difficult doesn't begin to describe it. Still. It's done now and he has gone. I have his set of keys, and stayed to see him get on the bus, and it drive away with him on it so I know he's definitely gone. He thought I was being sweet - I was actually being certain.

Going home tonight will be strange - I have a mountain of housework planned! I need to completely deep clean my flat, and start rearranging things so it feels like mine again. But I'm going to go via town & get myself something scrummy to cook tonight, then an early night, and tomorrow start my new job!

Right - I've got to finish writing handover notes for my current job before my meeting this afternoon.

Thanks so much for thinking of me. Otters are all utterly fabulous and I love you all. I couldn't have done this all without you. Group hug. xxx

I was thinking of you this morning too. So glad to hear he's gone, and I hope your last day at work is ok and that tomorrow is fantastic!

Well done LZ. Enjoy reclaiming your home, and good luck for the new job.

Good news! Enjoy your home and i hope it goes well tomorrow

A www yay things are really looking up for you how exciting times!!

i think you deserve scrummy tea a nice drink or two and crawl into bed with a nice book more than marigolds!

Enjoy your freedom and having your house back to yourself x

Great news Lady Zith, a new start a new chapter of your life!! Well done for staying strong, and enjoy it!!!

Great to hear things are going well.

Well done you and good luck with the new job. The first day of your new life!

Glad it all got

Phew! Glad to hear he moved out as planned.

Enjoy having the place to yourself and kicking off a fresh start.

Ah how was your first night in your newly reclaimed home LZ?

Sorry my lovelies - been too busy having a life this week to sit online!!!

No - seriously. This week has been nuts. New job is bloody awesome - I realised how bored I was in the last one!! Lots to do but I enjoy a challenge anyway.

I decided that sorting the flat wasn't something to do overnight so I've given myself to the end of the weekend. I'm loving it. It's not there yet but I'm chipping away at it. It feels so much calmer though - it's lovely.

The ex decided to get all vicious for a bit - I kind of predicted he would either get angry at me or disappear into a pit of self-flagellation & despair. He went the angry route - can't say I'm surprised - its a way of deflecting accepting any responsibility for things not working. After a barrage of increasingly abusive texts, I sent him one back basically saying I don't need this any more, I don't want your "toxic negative energy" in my life, hope you find a way to be happy but leave me the hell out of it. I haven't heard anything more from him since.

Anyway - I'm about to post another thread cos far more exciting than that is I got my hair done yesterday!